My story

On 20 July 2010 our beautiful son Jacob died suddenly from an anaphylactic reaction, eight days short of his 14 birthday.

Jacob struggled with asthma and allergies from an early age and was hospitalised several times. Despite this, he lived a full and energetic life. He loved football, swimming, music and, most of all, freerunning. He would jump from great heights, turn summersaults in the air and vault all obstacles in his path. He bore his illnesses cheerfully, refusing to let them interfere with what he wanted to do. His sunny disposition earned him the nickname ‘Smileyface’.

We will perhaps never know what Jacob ate the day he died. The last thing he said when I asked him was, “I’ll tell you later.” Whatever it was caused his tongue and throat to swell, stopping him from breathing. His usual medication and the emergency epipen couldn’t save him, nor could the ambulance crew or the paediatric team at Kingston Hospital despite heroic efforts.

We’ve spent 14 years with the fear that Jacob could die from his allergies and struggled desperately to protect him without denying him the freedom he so fiercely craved. In the end, it wasn’t enough.

Thousands of people suffer from asthma and allergies. For many, the conditions are life threatening. Instead of flowers for Jacob’s funeral, we are asking for donations to two charities working to raise awareness of these conditions and conduct research into helping those affected. Please give generously.

As well as the Anaphylaxis Campaign we are also supporting AAIR. Please see:

http://www.justgiving.com/JacobZeunerGriffiths-AAIR

My charity

The Anaphylaxis Campaign

The Anaphylaxis Campaign

Charity Registration No. 1085527

Anaphylaxis Campaign is the only UK wide charity to exclusively meet the needs of the growing numbers of people at risk from severe allergic reactions (anaphylaxis) by providing information and support relating to foods and other triggers such as latex, drugs and insect stings.

Donations 103

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Dagmar. Thinking of you - Melanie

Donation by Melanie Smith on 12/08/10

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Donation by Tony Ades on 11/08/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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Dagmar and Simon, we're so sorry. Thinking of you all with love, Ruth and Jan

Donation by Ruth Gilbert on 10/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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Donation by Frank Spannuth on 09/08/10

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With love to you all.

Donation by Dan Griffiths on 08/08/10

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The Meadlands Dad's Football team will always remember Jacob with fondness.

Donation by Meadlands Dads football on 07/08/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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Jacob touched our lives and will remain in my heart. . . . . . . .

Donation by celia day on 07/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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To Simon, Dagmar, Johann,Conrad and Esther. So tragic that you've lost such a lovely son and brother. We'll miss him so much in the choir.

Donation by Jenny Metherell on 06/08/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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We want to support both charities as we are also an 'allergic' family and value the work of both organisations.Remember Jacob with joy.

Donation by The Hutchinson Family xxx on 06/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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My thoughts are with you and your family. Sonia (Sue's friend)

Donation by sonia grewal on 06/08/10

£10.00

+ £2.82 Gift Aid

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Immensely sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Donation by navin sewak on 06/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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My condolences. It sounds like he was loved by so many

Donation by Will Gilmore on 06/08/10

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Hi Dagmar - I was so deeply sorry to hear about Jacob. It sounds like he was a great guy - full of life & happy. My thoughts are with you and famiy

Donation by Sarah Jones (WA) on 06/08/10

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My thoughts are with you at this very sad time.

Donation by Rob Meakin on 05/08/10

£40.00

+ £11.28 Gift Aid

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Fly free young Jacob. We know you are in safe hands. And thank you. I didn't meet you here on earth, but you have touched my life in your parting.

Donation by Em on 05/08/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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Our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. Colin and Eileen Tong (Meadland Choir)

Donation by Eileen Tong on 05/08/10

£15.00

+ £4.23 Gift Aid

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So sorry for your loss

Donation by Elizabeth Tarr on 05/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

Dear Dagmar and Family, Please accept heartfelt condolences from all of us in Public Health at the loss of Jacob. He was a very special individual and a precious part of your life. We are all thinking of you.

Donation by Public Health Department on 05/08/10

£111.00

+ £31.31 Gift Aid

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"Where the spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom." With love and prayers for you all.

Donation by Margaret Rees on 05/08/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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he was certainly a memorable charicter we went to the same primary, secondary and choir. my thoughts are with his family, espcaily his younger sister.

Donation by katie broderick on 05/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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Dagmar - our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. With deepest sympathy

Donation by South West London Health Protection Unit on 05/08/10

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Simon, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this dreadful time. Treasure your memories. Take strength from those who love you.

Donation by Karen Harrison on 05/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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Thinking of you all, sending you strength for these difficult times, and affectionately remembering Jacob and his cheeky face! Danielle, Chas & girls

Donation by Danielle Coleman on 05/08/10

£10.00

+ £2.82 Gift Aid

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With much love.

Donation by Pratibha Datta on 05/08/10

£30.00

+ £8.46 Gift Aid

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For Jacob.

Donation by Susan & Adam on 05/08/10

£10.00

+ £2.82 Gift Aid

Donation summary

  • * Online donations$5,908.39
  • Offline donations$248.41
  • Text donations$0.00
  • Total raised$6,156.80
  • Gift Aid$1,268.20

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