please help me to surprise my husband to get his hgv1after he has give up so much for me and my daughter it has been such a bad time over the last 6 years and he has stayed strong for are family

6 years ago we lost are home after we remortgage to get work done on are home after a fire we did not look into it properly and the payments got so much are home got repossessed in a way it was a good thing as we got a council house and it became are home . but i became ill and was diagnosed with ovarian cancer my recovery was long as i developed a infection and had to have nurses every day for 9 months but i was alive but the money we were saving for his licence all got used up as he had to take time a lot of time of work .then we started to save again and my mum became very ill and developed parkinson's and had to come to live with us so again we had to adapt the house so again his savings went my mum lived with us for 3 years but i could not cope on my own and she had to go into a nursing home the guilt of her going in the home made me develop depression i could not go out unless someone took me it took over my life and all the time he never moaned he gave me all the support i need and always doing a full time job but all he wanted was to get his licence every time we saved something would happen then my beautiful mum passed away so again we had to use the savings for the funeral he never once moaned but i no deep down it was another knock for him everytime he nearly got there it would all go wrong then this time last year we had saved in the credit union to go go away for the first time in years .go away for a week come back and do his license but 3 weeks before he lost his job and it hit him so hard for a few weeks he did go in himself and i had never saw him like this so again we lost the money on the holiday and had to use the rest of the money to pay bills he was upset to sign on he just would not do it so he went out early every day till he got a job he worked hard and was told they would take him on after christmas he was like a teenager the money was not good but when he would be taken on he would be on a good wage and they told him after a year if he was good they would put him in for his class 1 but 6 weeks after christmas they said they had to many drivers he had worked whatever they through at him all for this licence he really was broken 2 weeks later he took a job half pay he was on just so he had a job but savings is none existent after 7 months he got the job he is in now but when i said we can start to save again he said no unless a miracle happens i am never saving for it i could not take another illness death bad luck i really want it but never saving for it again i no he wants it so much he has had to look after us all and go out to work full time he is a wonderful husbans dad son i have started to save what i can he does not no but i am desparte to help get the money without him knowing so he does not have the worrie something bad would happen again i understand people have bad times a lot worse than us we have each other and were alive but i could never give him back what he has given to us and if i could get help this is life changing for us all thankyou for reading