My story

*** UPDATE ***

I managed to finish the race in a time of 4hrs 32 minutes. It was an amazing experience - very tough but completely elated when I crossed the line. A huge thank you to everyone who has supported and sponsored me along the way, including many people who I've never met or haven't seen for a long time. It's been emotional.

Rewind to January 2008 and that was the question that my wife Lisa and I were confronted with. 

A matter of days earlier, we had made the agonising decision for Lisa not to undergo any further intensive treatment for her Leukaemia. Instead, she decided to go home and spend quality time with her family and friends who meant so much to her. In the words of her consultant though, she was “looking at months not years”. 

We realised that once we had opted to go down this route, we needed to tell our eldest daughter, Ella. Not sure about the best way to do it, we were put in touch with Winston's Wish, a charity who specialise in offering support for bereaved children and their families. 

Telling Ella, was I think, just about the hardest part of our journey and always brings a tear to my eye whenever I recall that moment. But in drawing upon the advice of Winston’s Wish, at least we knew we were saying the right things. And to see how our daughters are flourishing 4 years later is in part, testament to that advice. 

Lisa died in April 2008 at the age of 34. She had initially made a good response to her treatment and told me that she would run a marathon when fully recovered! Of course at that stage I would have gladly settled for her just to get better. 

But the thought of running those 26.2 miles stuck with me, so this is my chance to honour Lisa’s desire to complete the challenge and a chance also to give something back to Winston’s Wish. 

And coming as the London Marathon does on April 22nd 2012, it will be 4 years to the day since Lisa's funeral. That day was one of celebration of someone who gave so much joy to so many - I know it will give me a big boost come the day.

Well, thank you very much for visiting my fundraising page – if you are able to make a donation, that would be amazing. In doing so, you will have the knowledge that you are helping families like ours cope with such a heartbreaking situation. 

Please remember to gift aid your donation if you can – this is worth an extra 28% to the charity at no cost to yourself.  Please note I cannot claim this gift aid if I pay in donations on your behalf.

 

Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally secure. Your details are safe with JustGiving – they’ll never sell them on or send unwanted emails. Once you donate, they’ll send your money directly to Winston’s Wish and make sure Gift Aid is reclaimed on every eligible donation by a UK taxpayer. So it’s the most efficient way to donate - I raise more, whilst saving time and cutting costs for the charity. 

So please dig deep and donate now. 

Thanks again,

Simon

 

 

 

My charity

Winston's Wish

Winston's Wish

Charity Registration No. 1061359

Winston's Wish supports children following the expected or sudden death of their mother, father, brother or sister. Recognised as a leading authority on the provision of child bereavement services across the UK, it is also the largest provider of bereavement services for children in Europe.

Donations 79

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Good luck Si.

Donation by Chris, Mhairi and Abigail on 21/04/12

£25.00

+ £6.25 Gift Aid

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Wishing you lots of luck on Sunday. We'll be looking out for you on the telly box!

Donation by Cat, Matt and Grace x. on 20/04/12

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Good luck Simon, its for a great cause & a lovely lady!

Donation by Sue & Robert Sims on 20/04/12

£20.00

+ £5.00 Gift Aid

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Good luck for this year's challenge of choice! Lisa will be so very proud of her Mr Slipper

Donation by Mark Hollis on 20/04/12

£25.00

+ £6.25 Gift Aid

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We are all on your side (even the weather)! When you hit "the wall" just think of the pint at the end. Love from a very proud Mum and Dad. XX

Donation by Linda Wilson on 20/04/12

Go Wilson! xx

Donation by The Woods on 20/04/12

£20.00

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Good Luck Si! When in pain, remember that the voice inside you that says you can't do it is a lying slut! ;o) xx

Donation by Libby Reed on 20/04/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Simon, Lisa would be so proud, as are we, fantastic effort - enjoy the day, Ingrid Liam Ruby mabel

Donation by Ingrid Reeves on 19/04/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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Good Luck Simon!!

Donation by Melissa Hobbs on 19/04/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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Good Luck for Sunday. xxxxx

Donation by Helen Jones on 19/04/12

£25.00

+ £6.25 Gift Aid

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Good luck!

Donation by Stacey Foster on 19/04/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Good luck Simon. A very worthy cause in honour of a wonderful lady. xxx

Donation by Narina, Robert and Luke Wilson on 18/04/12

£20.00

+ £5.00 Gift Aid

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4 years on and she's just as much in our hearts. In your words, here's hoping you finish before the roads reopen! xx

Donation by Michelle Sims on 18/04/12

£20.00

+ £5.00 Gift Aid

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Best of luck Mr Wilson! Love to you all xxxx

Donation by The Andrews xxxxxxx on 17/04/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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Good luck Simon. You can do it!

Donation by Judd, Rosie & Katie on 15/04/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Good Luck Si - will be looking out for you on the telly!!

Donation by Hayley, Mick and Girls xx on 13/04/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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you will need a good rest in Cley after!- well done for your cause.

Donation by ALISON TART on 11/04/12

£25.00

+ £6.25 Gift Aid

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Hi Simon, my friend Raj told me about your cause. I was very moved to read your story. Hope you exceed your target. All the best Monica

Donation by Anonymous on 04/03/12

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Lisa was born 38 years ago today. A beautiful daughter who leaves a huge hole in our hearts. Love Mum and Dad xxxx

Donation by judith mumby on 28/02/12

Donation by Alison Hutchison on 27/02/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Hi Simon, a friend of mine Raj told me of what your doing, great cause and reason, hope you blow your target. All the best!

Donation by Anup on 27/02/12

£5.00

+ £1.25 Gift Aid

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Good luck (although I'm sure you won't need it) x x I'm sure a very special lady with be giving you all the drive you need x x x Lots of love

Donation by Chris & Kerry x x x on 26/02/12

£50.00

+ £12.50 Gift Aid

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Good Luck Simon xxx

Donation by Raj Sangha on 26/02/12

£50.00

+ £12.50 Gift Aid

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Happy birthday Simon. Just to say we are very proud of our favourite son-in-law!! You are doing a fantastic job with the girls. We love you all lots.

Donation by Richard & Judith mumby on 24/02/12

Good luck Simon x

Donation by Nana Olive on 24/02/12

£20.00

Donation summary

  • * Online donations£1,780.00
  • Offline donations£0.00
  • Text donations£20.00
  • Total raised£1,800.00
  • Gift Aid£410.00

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