I’m not sure if he knew it, but Toby has always inspired me and someone I’ve always looked up to. Most recently and during lockdown, I have been inspired to get out in the fresh air and run, and I was pleasantly surprised how much I loved it! I always thought I couldn’t run and wouldn’t enjoy it, but it was the opposite, in fact! I have been learning about the relationship between physical and mental health, which is why this challenge is so important to me. 

I have decided to challenge myself to a 15K run (not quite a half marathon like Toby yet!). I will run it on Christmas Eve with my partner, Tom, who has been an incredible support. 

We want to not only challenge ourselves, but also to raise money in memory of Toby in a way which feels fitting for him. We are raising funds for the Lions Barbers Collective, who are a charity Toby was affiliated with as a barber. They provide training for barbers to raise awareness of mental health and suicide prevention. 

The aim of our run is to raise awareness of mental health and and suicide, and how it really can affect anyone. 

Thank you for taking the time to read my personal story and any for donations you can spare. 💙