Story

This page is set up in memory of our beautiful little boy Raegan will always be so precious, so missed and so loved by all who were so lucky to have known him xxx

Raegan was the first born of our beautiful boys, he has an identical twin brother Dylan. The boys were a pair from the start, they spent four days following their birth in special baby unit due to low blood sugar and during this time looked most settled snuggled in the same cot together. We had hopes for them to be companions for life, to go through each stage together and to always be there for one another.

On Tuesday 8th May 2007 following a very unsettled night Raegan seemed to have finally settled although I was concerned that he was quite pale and in general seemed off colour. I called my GP but as I awaited a return call my anxieties grew and I ended up taking Raegan to A&E. On arrival there I was told he was to be transferred to children's ward and when we got there things became quite frantic with lots of doctors fussing around him. Finally someone told us that Raegan had a very bad infection and that he required to be transferred to the intensive care unit at Yorkhill hospital for specialist care. We were told at this point that he was very ill. Somehow I remember not being able to accept this and although highly anxious I could not consider he wasn't going to be ok.

When the doctors from Yorkhill arrived they seemed more optimistic, which was relieving and soon we were on our way to Glasgow. Despite a positive night, the next morning we were confronted with the devastating news that a scan revealed significant damage to Raegan's brain and were told that should he survive he would have significant disabilities. After having some hope the night before we again felt such fear and sadness but still nothing else mattered as long as he lived.

Raegan fought on for three days until on Friday 11th of May we decided to take him off the machines supporting him. At 3pm that day he took his final little breath snuggled in between his mummy and daddy.

And we always will be grateful for him, we will always miss him and we love him so much xxxx

JENNIFER McDIARMID
November 2012

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Meningitis Research Foundation

Meningitis Research Foundation

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Meningitis Research Foundation funds research to prevent meningitis and septicaemia, and to improve survival rates and outcomes. The Foundation promotes education and awareness to reduce death and disability, and gives support to people affected.

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