Ive never asked for much help from any one, but Tony is one of the good guys, hard-working father and grandfather who loves his family unconditionally,
I got together with Tony at the begininng of febuary 18, we'd been friends for years, it just happened , we fell in love together like it had been forever, Hes become my everything, my best friend, my future, we were so happy! 
it all started back in June 18, we were a normal hard working family planning our life together,  when Tony became unwell, within 6 weeks he was diagnosed stage 4 metastatic anal cancer, its advanced and in his lymph nodes, liver and lung, and our world fell apart, he had to stop working as he was in so much pain, i continued to work for a further few months until it became apparent that I was needed at home, I am trying to keep a roof over our heads and make sure Tony has everything he needs while he is poorly, the stress on us as a family is immense, I have had to go back to work to try and relieve pressure on our financial situation, Tony is currently undergoing chemotherapy to shrink the cancer which is taking it's toll, he's tired and in pain a lot of the time although he doesn't let anyone see this side of him. he's next to endure 5 and a half weeks of gruelling radiotherapy which means daily trips to Brighton hospital, then he's looking at an operation on his liver next year, we have no idea what the outcome will be,
This man is everything to me and his family, if you could just spare even a few pence to help towards transport costs, parking, petrol and care for him whilst I go back to work part time to ensure all our bills and rent are paid, it would help ease the pressure of dealing with extra costs that are pulling us further into debt. Any money left at the end of this long dark will be donated to the Sussex cancer