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Weʼre raising £1,000 to help my sister's family through a devastating time in their lives ....

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My sister’s world has just been turned upside down....

A while ago, my brother in law, John, complained of smelling odd smells and tasting odd tastes. He then travelled to work one day, had a flat tyre, changed it and then just ‘lost’ 45 minutes of time. He went to the doctors and they sent him for some tests. John then had to do some travelling for work to China. This is when he really started to feel unwell....he felt dizzy, uneasy on his feet and had horrendous headaches. He flew back early.... The doctors then sent him for an MRI and that’s when they discovered a very large tumour on his brain..... The consultants have now told him it's an aggressive form of cancer and is incurable.

This is devastating.....

My sister, very bravely and with the help of the Macmillan website, told the children that their dad had Cancer and that the doctors were going to help him...This was probably the saddest thing she's ever done....

On Friday the 13th (John saw this as a positive) it was the day of the operation. We drove up to Bristol Southmead hospital at 5am...It was the hardest drive of our lives... My sister said goodbye, to a very smiley and positive John at 9am. The time that day seemed to slow down...each minute felt like a hour. After 9 hours in surgery, John was finally in Intensive Care. When we got there, he even managed to smile...

We noticed that John's left side unfortunately wasn't moving and we later found out that he had indeed had a Stroke. Another devastating blow! John undergoes daily Physiotherapy. He remained so strong and positive and felt sure that one day life would go back to the way it was...only, more positive, more grateful and living every day feeling blessed. And to one day help others in his position. My sister has also been strong, faced many fears and been incredibly brave. She made the journey to Bristol from Yeovil every day whilst organising and caring for the children. She also managed to fit in a few hairdressing clients! Our family have come together and formed a 'safety blanket' around them, helping in any way we can.

A meeting was held on the 19th with the consultant that performed the operation. He told us some very worrying news... If John's left side didn't start to get feeling back, then they couldn't go forward with any further treatment ie the Chemo and Radiotherapy and there were also two inoperable tumours that will continue to grow at a fast rate.... This is the day my sister broke down.....

Also, on the 19th John, had his clips out and thankfully got transferred nearer to home.

Still smiling and being brave........

Now that John is in Yeovil Hospital, the children can see him everyday. We can all pop in and spend time with him...bring him his favourite things, favourite food and give him lots of cuddles.

My sister and John have 3 children under the age of 12. John also has 3 sons from a previous relationship. Their home has been a busy, happy, full of life home. Financially they have always got by, but now....... I just don’t know how my sister's family will manage... how she will be able to keep up with all the bills possibly without John's income. I just want my sister and John to be able to focus on the operation and rehabilitation instead of worrying about money. My husband, also John's very close friend, has done lots of research and he has found something that will help possibly slow down the growth of the tumours. Its made in Japan and is £320...... this may give him more time for his left side to reengage with his brain, then he can have his Chemo and Radiotherapy....and give him a chance. We have to try everything!

If anyone can help, just even a little, it would help her and John so very much. Our whole family has come together and will do all that we can but we can’t do it all.

Thank you for reading.

Me and my big sis when times were easier.......

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  • Suzy McLeod5 days ago
    Suzy McLeod

    Suzy McLeod

    5 days ago

    RIP John Burns 1963 - 2018 💔

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  • Suzy McLeod13 days ago
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    Suzy McLeod

    13 days ago

    Sorry I haven’t updated everyone for a while. John didn’t go forward with the Chemo or radiotherapy, it would have been just too much for him. He did manage to go home for a couple of weeks but unfortunately had a fall and things seemed to deteriorate from there. Currently we are in the wonderful St Margarets Hospice. John hasn’t really been awake for the past couple of days. We have had the odd wave, thumbs up, the odd pout of lips and a few little smiles. His family are around him and he is comfortable. This is a such heartbreaking time.....

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  • Suzy McLeod2 months ago
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    Suzy McLeod

    2 months ago

    Tomorrow John starts his Chemo and Radiotherapy treatment. He’s still in the wonderful hands of South Petherton Hospital and will be transported daily for the next three weeks to Bristol where he will be given his treatment. Yvonne will be going with him every day. I think John is feeling scared of the unknown. People can react differently to the treatment. We just hope and pray that it’s not too harsh on John. He is still being so amazing and so positive! Yvonne has found a strength I don’t think she knew she had! I’m very proud of my big sis!

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Page last updated on: 8/14/2018 9:16 PM

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  • Alan Mond

    Alan Mond

    Aug 14, 2018

    Dear Suzy,I am so sorry for your loss. I used to work with Robbie back in the 1990's at IQD. He was a great colleague and friend. Please pass on my condolences to his wife and family.

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  • neil floodgate

    neil floodgate

    Aug 14, 2018

    Hi SuzyVery sorry to hear the news about Robbie. I worked with him at IQD back in the mid 1990s and saw him a few years ago here in the USA. RegardsNeil

    £30.00

  • Julie Johnson

    Julie Johnson

    Aug 14, 2018

    Im sorry its not more but hope in some way this will help. hugs and kisses and thinking of you all at this sad time xx

    £20.00

  • Sharon Miller

    Sharon Miller

    Aug 14, 2018

    So sorry for your loss. I worked with John for many years and we became good friends. He was an absolute pleasure to know and I will always remember him with a smile x

    £100.00

  • Angela Crouch

    Angela Crouch

    Aug 9, 2018

    So sorry to read this news about John, my thoughts are with all of you. ❤️x

    £30.00

  • Tracey Lacey

    Tracey Lacey

    Aug 9, 2018

    Thoughts are with you loved working with Robbie x

    £20.00

  • Sharon Pearce

    Sharon Pearce

    Aug 9, 2018

    Sending my best wishes to John and his family. Have good memories of John and sorry to hear of his illness.

    £30.00

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