hi im 52 ive been a chef for 30+ years .ive not been able to work for the past 4 years due to chronic arthritis. i have 3 children. 2 boys and a girl .both boys are autistic so its been hard from day one. at the beginning of the year i was diagnosed with metastasised bowel cancer. by the time i got to see the specialist in February he said it was inoperable and was already stage 4 in my lungs. all treatment will be palliative. they have given me between 2/3 years tops. its going to be hard for the kids to understand especially when the Christmas presents stop. what i would like to do is take them on some trips or mini breaks they will always remember things like a weekend in London to see the museums i want them just to have happy memories. its only a little bucket list with 3 or 4 items on it but with your help it might be doable. thanks for reading.