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    Dear all

    What you are about to read will at least shock some. It is not only my own personal story but countless stories of relationships with (particularly men) from the Middle East. As well as Muslim men that find what you are about to read genuinely appropriate,

    I am a wellness therapist in the trade for over 25 years. I am based in London since 2008 and am of Romanian nationality. These are my best qualities and I am proud to present myself as. In the month of September 2017 I have been hired by one of the Middle Eastern majesties. A real Saudi royal. Wow ! Amazing ! Right?

    Ever since the first sight this presented zero interest. Because I am of royal descent myself, I was more repulsed than attracted. I don't make much fuss about what my family used to be. I identify myself with what I do and not with useless "titles".

    From the firs moment he was overly friendly for me delivering a service and courteous. There was a lot of talking. I have a very industrious personality. I shared what I do in London besides wellness, I do have entrepreneurial projects that I am seeking investors for. One of these being https://www.facebook.com/chiwater/.

    Our visitor the prince was also looking to open a water business. However while his project would have costed 5 million - of which he did not dispose of in liquidities - my project is a few hundred thousand to start at a decent international level even. As I was kept on with this conversation I was invited for dinner. I half accepted. Basically this individual did everything and anything to make room for himself under my skin.. he showed interest in more things I would have wanted and was actually very opened. Then in this same night he told me he is lazy. Which I thought nothing of. Then he said it's not very easy. He did look a little bit overweight. He said he is lazy in a way where he would pay someone 10 k to go to the restroom for him. I couldn't believe my ears. I'm usually very fresh in the face and told him I would wipe him off completely in the case of such disrespect to his own body and life. This person is the - get out of bed as little as possible - type. I left, there was a lot more messaging and courting that followed. I got hired again and again and again. Finally I offered one of my programs which is a all in one recovery (not necessarily from addiction), longevity, age reversal retreats. And so we have been to Maldives. Everything included as well. All fantastic. I was by this time beginning to feel charmed by the all compelling attention and interest I was shown. Now this was around the new years to 2018.

    While in Maldives I got to hear more marriage proposals than anyone ever would want to hear in a lifetime. He started offering and promising everything. Even a Saudi prince title for myself... The man went on and on sounding like a broken record. I wasn't even able to go to the restroom without him following me. I imagine some may think I should have been flattered but really - NO. In terms of life experience and fulfilment this person is nowhere. Immature to the point that he wouldn't know how to book his own flight or anything.. Partially because I thought he may have a solid principled upbringing because of family background I started to put things on a scale and to consider what is most beneficial for everyone. He was showing tremendous progress in my program. He lost 7 kg in less than a week and quit smoking. He learned few things about healthy diet easily. I am the kind of person that strategises everyone's best interest before their own and this case was no exception. The future prospects looked extraordinarily prosperous for everyone. Win win ! Eventually with all the planning involved I half gave in.

    I told the prince: I am most loyal to word given and expect the same, You are no prince to me I said (due to his life choices) .... But if our union is to build something I am opened to grow few businesses with you. It is customary that one requesting a hand in marriage shows up to the family with a dowery. Especially for a royal descendent, it's mostly what it's all about. I was to accept under these terms - water company opened asap, I asked for myself a Central penthouse with river view, a few vacation houses and monthly £ 10 thousand allowance. Because - my work - would bring shame to his family as I was not suppose to accidentally meet them through work, he was to provide my income.

    Now because I do live in central London in a soaringly priced rented flat, that I rent out of a corporation that will never give a dam about anyone living here I had to really express all my life needs? I mean I am your life need and you can't live without me? Fine! Well I can't live without these .. literally !

    Part of where the political issues arise is here - Saudi Arabia does not recognise LGBT relationships - which leaves me totally exposed to his own good will and integrity to word given. Also I do not have anything in writing.

    Indeed many words he has given. Honestly, I never imagined something like him can exist. This man is the most evil thing in existence.

    Starting with my birthday - it's in February - he insisted to be here. I of course was more than happy to see him. He came earlier as to surprise me. But in reality to check if I am not working still... Even tho I already agreed I will not. I actually let go of long and beautiful clients that were my good friends for the prince's sake. Also in order to get the money I worked for in Maldives it took 3 months - in which I had no other income. It was a pure nightmare and the prince was just smiling saying all is well and there is nothing to worry about.

    In this time I have initiated paying for a house in Italy. My mom lives in Italy. She is long time married with a lovely Italian man. He is unwell and pensioned. However before getting to be pensioned, he and my mom and my grandmother, that all live together have been living out of my mom's earnings which were under 1000 euro. Which is extreme poverty, so I had to support them. With that I never made any savings or anything. So this house I started to buy for my family to move into as for the social house they were staying in before they did not pay rent for 3 years (I wish this was an option in London) as they just would have been starving to death really. Anyway since they received the eviction notice I concluded that with my new marriage settlement I can be of support and paid an advance for the house.

    Eventually on my birthday I wanted to split up as he was flirting with one of my friends, that he didn't like. I didn't understand if that was the case what was it I was doing there and why did I need to see that on my birthday out of all days of the year ?? !!! After a very big drama with crying in public and making all the drama scenes possible I said ok.. Let's see what can be done. We have made plans to again get him to stick to a diet to restore his health as - not forced by economy - enjoys to eat Mc Donalds which in a health ambassador's book is pure poison. He was to put his things together in Saudi Arabia and come to move to London immediately.

    He told me that all the preparations to move are preventing him to send my allowance or anything really,,, Months passed. He was persisting calling few times a day everyday to check on me. Of course not only that ... I was also privately followed.

    Eventually he got me so paranoid even to go out of my own house. The time of the house deposit has expired, my family couldn't wait to move with the eviction, I was not able to work or help them, everything was more and more tens.

    In the mean time what happened was from February to the month of August dear prince spent his time as a couch decoration for his mother and family and only ate junk food. As per addiction. He played few hundred thousands £££ at card games and lost. And he stuffed his closet - which is an actual 2 levels house - with new shoes. None of those shoes are under £ 900 ... Shoes he doesn't go anywhere with or even looks at. Ever ... Can you level with the kind of calm I needed to find not to want to murder this ... creature ? ? !!

    He eventually reached from 67 kg where I have seen him last time 90 kg. Imagine being stuck to the couch with 90 kg of fat, how depressed you become instantly !

    So then he finally sent some allowance like for some month .. eventually. With that an a little more I got from the bank as - not even load but from the credit card - I managed to pay a second deposit for the house. In the mean time my family was lucky enough to receive a house for free from some gentle people that have an extra. In Italy the economy is so bad that people that have an extra house prefer to give them instead of having to pay taxes on property. They did have to invest a lot in renovating and so on.. But at least my heart was settled that they were out of the danger zone.

    After this there was even more depression and neurosis on his side. I was persisting in encouraging asking on when is he moving, when am I starting the business? I understand you are lazy but at least enable me to do everything and you will have half of everything - even if it's all my idea - as his original water project was a disaster - as I can stand everything but only one thing really kills me. Doing nothing. I already know how to do nothing. I am the action man. Need to see growth.

    As to not completely explode for September I took the minimum necessary and put myself a plane to India. There is a much divine and serene biggest Shivate community I have wanted to connect with for 6 years. http://nithyananda.org/#gsc.tab=0

    They had a free 21 day orientation program so I just had to exorcise myself from this mans doings. My experience there was beyond transformational. I cannot recommend it highly enough. When I got back I had nothing paid. A few letter from my landlord with threats of incarceration ( yes I never have seen such a thing in my life ) for non payments. Threatening letters from banks, bills etc. . The prince was reassuring me that all is ok. Not to worry. I didn't worry . in practical terms, but I was losing my mind with all the pressure from all non paid services. Eventually I received a letter about my deposit with the house in Italy that I lost my deposit and what I paid the agency. In all I lost £ 18 thousand pounds. I can never recover. Also The owners of the house decided that it is a good idea to sue me because my delaying in closing the buying contract, stopped them from opening some business.

    As a grand finally to all this story he tells me: - A ... but you couldn't have taken all I said seriously .. ?? It was a joke !

    Now ladies and gentlemen this unroyal individual has managed this: I was about to have my family living in the street - as they were counting on my very royally insured words. I completely lost any credibility with my family. They do not hate me, but almost.. I have more debts than ever in my existence. I never in my time in London had such a disastrous financial record. I postponed my business projects 1 year. I lost my work contacts and work consistency. Now I can hardly manage to get few bills paid with what I earn. Again I am not proud of this but this is the true state of the matter.. I find myself at a starting point.. I almost got to live on the street and .. who knows? Even face a criminal record with all the non payments incurred. Got me frustrated and more heart ache than even if I was to be heartbroken in love.

    I never told him I loved him and I am sure I would have gotten to if he would have done his part of the contract.

    Now I find myself in a situation where I can take a personal revenge by writing to his mother that thinks he is straight - tho he is gayer than Liberace -.... or sending him a private dancing 300 kg sumo wrestler of to bring him back to his senses. Which being almost 39 years old is not satisfactory enough. He is 37

    The only way to conclude this sensibly is to take him to court and hit him financially. Which in this country costs 5% of the amount requested. Because of the extended damage he has caused I think even 10 million wouldn't be satisfactory. For the sake of getting things done I can just file the case for £ 200 thousand of damage at least, if not more . for which I would have to pay the deposit and the solicitors fees which I don't expect to be very low.. I am happy to refund if the case is successful and even pay interest to whoever is interested supporting this case

    Politically there are many accusing fingers pointed at the Saudis and Uk is not looking at them with a favourable eye. UK right now is just waiting for the Saudis to take a wrong step. If I succeed to file a case, this will go through the Saudi Crowned Prince revising hands.. It is customary in Saudi Arabia that the Crown Prince does oversee all matters of the state and family. This will teach this prince that people are not toys. And this is definitely not the way one treats even their worse enemies. A further search online results that there are more people having complains about him and similar circumstances.

    While being in London I have heard of many injustices done to especially young men. I understand now how they can lose hope that any justice can be done in the context where there isn't even a recognition of the fact two men can be together in these countries.

    They are taught to fear, cower and lye about everything and anything, for free.. with no remorse and no thoughts about consequences.

    It is possible for this to be brought to awareness, If someone in a highest social position can give such shameful example than the common people might be even worse.

    I am not proud of this story at all. It is very embarrassing for me. If I have to give myself as an example for people to be able to come back to their senses I am going to do it.

    I have a feeling this is what's right but I'd like to hear suggestions and opinions on this.

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