Basically I was in a bad way and had nothing so decided to take on some not so usual work, because it was my only option at the time to provide for my girlfriend and child because you know that you can't let them go without. So as a man you do what you have to do to make sure that your responsibilities are taken care of. I'm a very proud person and I really hate to ask people for favours and would rather struggle and figure it out my own way so I did that, no I don't claim benefits and haven't done for about 8 years now as I would rather not associate myself with that lifestyle. Now that I have gotten myself out of that sticky situation I have been put into another whilst trying to get myself out the line of work I was in and have been asked for 20k to be able to leave I really do not have this and need a fast way to raise this or I feel that it'll end badly which has left me fearing what that will be. The rest of the money will be used to build a business so I and my family will no longer have to worry and in turn I will be providing jobs for my community in the end. I am grateful for any help you are willing to offer as am down to my last resorts again now.