hi all as some of you will know i now live and work in australia and it is a bit of a tradition here that when some one passes away we have a bit of a wip arround and try to get a few dollers together for the widow.

I think we can and should do this for sam. This isnt to try and bring andy back from the dead or pay for anything in particular it is to try and make sams life easier in any way that money can pay a few bills, fix her car buy significant amounts of ben and jerrys ice cream etc. Basicly try to make this horrific time less stressfull by removing other stresses.

sam has not and knowing her would not ask for this but this is about us as freinds wanting to do somthing a bit more than beautiful messages and flowers