Weʼre raising £4,000 to To help fund me and my partners journey for IVF I have endometriosis life health condition and have no tubes.
- Newark, UK
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Hi there everyone.
firstly i just need to express that this is all new to me and i have never had the confidence to reach out like this before. And that all my intentions are honest and true and i feel that this part and time in my life i have the strengh to reach out to my friends and family.
Also thank you for taking the time in reading my page and giving your empathy towards my cause. I strongly believe that others are less fortunate and have been dealt with a much more worse of a battle, but i also know us as individuals struggle our own battles weather its big or small.
So hear goes.....
I am a Endometriosis warrior! I was diagnosed in 2013 and been battling this ever since! in the process i lost my tubes and had numerous of operations! To then be told i couldnt have anymore children. ( please let me just say i am very very bless to of been able to gain two children already) and my heart goes out to those beautifull woman who sadly can not have children. My heart ache and pain and suffering is that i had my woman hood taken away from me , my choise of expanding my family and just living my life day to day and being able to make a choice of having more children( witch that was my dream to have a big family) sadly what caused this horrible diagnosis and heartache was on my second delivery my midwife did not remove my plecenta properly witch caused a huge deal and mess! For then be told the whole plecenta has attached its self to my whole womb /tubes and ovaries so then i had scar tissue from the infection! Huge heart drop! Inlnew my self this had damamged me and something wasnt going to right ever again! Ladies please listen always make sure your plecenta is completely removed after delivery as this can happen and i dont wish it on anybody! My whole life has been dependent on this and its effected me everyday! Depression anxiety , low self esteem - relationship breakdowns pain constant agony day in day out! And then be told i have four large cysts on both my ovaries! And a huge over active thyroid.
Im a huge loving person and for those who knpw me will know im a happy go lucky bubbely person. But down the line of dealing with this ive lost my identity! People may say you should count your blessings on what you have instead of what you dont have. YOU are so right! But woman to woman, if you have your woman hood taken away from you from another person for not doing a proper job to then it leading to complications! Thats the back breaker! Please understand i love being a mum.. well and truly and my son and daughter are my own world by all means,,
But please find it in your hearts to see i just want to bring contentment to my life for me and my fiance on a baby.
My consultant says IVF is the only way. But if ivf doesnt work and you have tried then an hystorectomy is the next step.
Id like to believe i am a strong woman with positive mind set. But i would like to think i tried everything first knowing i tried before i stopped.
Thank you so much for reading my story i love you for just for doing that, evan if dont donate! Knowing you took your time out to read it will make feel happy.
LOVE BOBBIE JANE
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