I split with my ex wife around 3 years ago since then seeing my children has been very difficult, I have been making the effort but she thwarts any attempt. She has had me arrested and investigated twice for harassment (both occasions the police dropped the investigation due to evidence of false allegations). We have a court order in place which she constantly breached in the first 3 months until 3 weeks ago she rang me saying she is cancelling the order effective immediately because I'm seeing my children too often. I have not seen or heard from my children since then and the authorities say I have to go back to court to enforce the order and until then there is nothing I can do about it. I work full time and I pay all my bills and child maintenence.