Sadly on the 18th of May my eldest baby gained her wings at just 20 years young, no age at all. Bethany was full of life and personality, and loved beyond measure by me, her little brothers, family and friends who are now trying to cope with her loss. At times like this people like to send cards and flowers but in all honesty flowers and cards will eventually be disposed of. I, as her mum, would much rather any money that you would usually spend on flowers and cards went towards something much more meaningful such as giving Bethany the final day that she deserves. A day where her little brothers can say their final goodbyes along with friends and family, as well as to celebrate her short life. If people would like to do this in memory of her, it would be much more appreciated than cards and flowers. Thank you x