A group of over forty members and their friends we are winning the fight against loneliness in our community. An award winning organisation run completely by volunteers and relying totally on donations we have saved lives and restored smiles and confidence in an all too often forgotten minority yet important social group.

The law, LGBT rights, same sex marriage – all have helped transform our lives. Attitudes towards LGBT people are improving

But have all things have changed for the better? Secret lives can lead to alienation, hostility, loneliness, depression.

“I was sick of being told by people -even gay people – that it is easier to be gay now”.

“It's a painful thing for people to deal with. Not everyone comes out of the closet shouting hurray!”

“The scene has been decimated by social media and apps. The sense of the gay place, the frisson of gay socialising has been much diminished. A magical environment has gone. “

“I should have been able to talk to my teacher, to my parents. I don't think many people really understand the trauma.”

OUR PURPOSE

Other LGBT people do understand the trauma. FOD seeks to channel the support that gay people can give to each other, and to identify what kind of support is needed.

We want to get people talking to each other again and sharing the wisdom that both young and old have to benefit one another.

WHY?

However old, LONELINESS can destroy lives.

Different LGBT generations have much in common, dealing with everyday issues of living in the wider community. But the places and networks that were the foundations of a unique social bond – for mentoring, buddying and mutual help – have diminished. That loss creates a void that cannot be filled by institutions.

“We want to offer a lively exchange of discussion and ideas between generations of the gay community and help create a safety blanket of companionship.”

HOW?

Create a safe place, a regular gathering at a neutral venue in Leeds city centre close to transport links, something to look forward to.

Where our Senior LGBT people can share stories and reminisce and record memories of a time passed. But also to look forward and possibly learn new things to help them retire gracefully with some fun and humility along the way.

An opportunity to connect the younger LGBT generation to the elderly, a two way friendship.

For the over 50’s to share a common understanding of life before equality. To help younger people come to terms with any problems they face and provide wise counsel and advice.

For younger people a chance to enjoy hearing about and learn from seniors, and to understand the issues faced by elderly LGBT

To connect professionals and support workers around specific LGBT issues whether elderly or youth related.