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    Weʼve raised £1,300 to help Mark Neethling, who is living in South Africa, fighting cancer in his spine, hip, shoulder blade and in some of his ribs.

    Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, UK
    Funded on Friday, 9th November 2018

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    Story

    The Story of Mark Neethling

    It was a sunny winters morning in July this year. The Indian Ocean playing joyfully on Addington Beach, in Durban South Africa. We were sitting at the Surfer Riders Restaurant opposite the old Addington’s children hospital.

    Surfers were playing in the sea. Families, tourists and local young people walked, cycled and rollerbladed in front of us whilst I was listening attentively to my old Navy pal’s challenging journey. A Journey of courage, of defiance and a Journey of blind faith.

    Over breakfast Mark told me what I already knew. He had cancer. What I did not know was the extend of his illness, his personal challenge and his resolve to go to battle.

    The winter sun was pleasantly warm. The Durban Bluff held its guard above the KwaZulu-Natal harbour, the world seemed content.

    The reality could not have been further from the truth. Mark proceeded to tell me that in November last year he suffered excruciating back pain. His doctors perplexed by the cause thereof. His eight-year-old daughter distraught in seeing her father curled up in pain on his bedroom floor. The diagnosis differed from back muscle spasm, stress due to his recent painful divorce, to a possible childhood injury to his spine.

    Eventually Mark was admitted to the Inkosi Albert Luthuli Hospital where he underwent a variety of full body scans, blood tests and bone marrow extractions. These confirmed cancer in the bottom of his spine, his hip, top of his spine, in the scapula in his shoulder blade and in some of his ribs.

    During our second cup of coffee Mark paused, looking at passers by, a comfortable silence came over us. I allowed it to linger, as I did not want to pry. I allowed Mark to tell his story at his own pace. Every now and again, we diverted and talked about the tourists, surfers and bikers who passed before us. The state of Durban today, generally neglected. Mark proved to be as funny as he was years ago in the Navy, with sharp wit and quick reflections. We talked about our old Navy mates, Cuan Sawyer, Erick Cleminston, Adrian Fourie, Mark Holgate and Peter Callaghan. We reminisced about the past, we were younger then.

    Eventually Mark told me that he commenced with radiation therapy, which had to be re-scheduled a few times, as the machines were down. He was warned about the side effects of nausea, diarrhoea and burning when passing urine.

    Suddenly there’s a smile on his face. He told me about his parents who came to Durban to provide some moral support. Support he desperately needs. Following a painful divorce, Mark moved into bachelors flat in the Glenwood area. ‘Its OK’, he said, ‘its all I need, its home’. His eight-year-old daughter visiting him on a regular basis. He continued to tell me how close they are, his face light up with delight. She strengthens his resolve to beat the cancer, so he could be there for her. He has no intention of dying, God willing, so this disease needs to be tackled head-on. He talked warmly of his parents and described them as a tower of refuge, strength, courage and love, during this difficult time.

    After the radiation treatment, steroids and cortisone followed, which left his face swollen, his throat raw, with mouth ulcers, and suffering with fatigue. But despite this, he remains in good spirit, and strong in his faith.

    After we finished our breakfast, we took a short walk on the beach. He walked with a limp and complains of pain in his hip. We walked slowly. He’s been left tiered by the radiation treatment, and chemo commencing on the 30th August. That brings its own complications.

    Mark dropped me off at my hotel, we said our good-byes and I gave my old friend a hug. Inspired by his optimism, humbled by his challenges and resolute to see if we could be of help.

    Mark sends regular updates to his circle of friends via Whatsapp and Facebook. In a recent one, he wrote:-

    "I have over the last while really felt my body going through a metamorphosis as drugs and treatment have taken its toll. This is a journey one doesn't want to discover, but when the storms of life come, and they do, we best be strong with anchor and sail ready!

    The greatest challenge in fighting this disease is remaining positive. I have had many ups and downs over the last couple of weeks, but in saying that, I can say without a shadow of doubt that I will beat this illness.

    When I am in doubt and fear of the unknown I am reminded that my God is busy doing a work and preparing me for what lies ahead.

    Isaiah 64:8 But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand. "

    With no medical insurance, in a health system that is at best challenged, no income, and mounting debt, we, Mark’s friends appeal to you, to help us, to help Mark.

    Any contribution would be welcomed, it doesn’t matter how small, it would be appreciated. Whether it is Rand, Dirham, Dollars, Euro’s or Pounds. Please donate via the justgiving website, https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/hein-scheffer?ref=pageredirect. Thank you for help.

    ~ Hein Scheffer August 2018

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    • Hein  Scheffer5 months ago
      Hein  Scheffer

      Hein Scheffer

      5 months ago

      Thank you for helping Mark, but there's more to be done - Mark has started Chemo therapy and as predicted this has left him tiered, nauseous and feeling under the weather. But the boy remains optimistic and he is grateful for everyone's help and support. Let's try and take this to the next level and share this as widely as possible. Everyone's help is greatly appreciated, irrespective of the size of the donation. Every little bit helps. Please share Mark's Story, as widely as possible.

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    Supporters

    24

    • Johann Scheffer

      Johann Scheffer

      Oct 20, 2018

      From : Helmut and Birgit Horsthemke - Gobabis, Namibia

      £100.00

    • Laings

      Laings

      Oct 10, 2018

      £100.00

    • Margaret Freeman

      Margaret Freeman

      Sep 29, 2018

      £30.00

    • Shaun Reid

      Shaun Reid

      Sep 27, 2018

      £20.00

    • Brendina Saul

      Brendina Saul

      Sep 25, 2018

      Hope that this is helpful on what seems a very challenging journey.

      £30.00

    • Gary & Debbie Freeman

      Gary & Debbie Freeman

      Sep 6, 2018

      All our love to you Mark - Gary and Debbie Freeman 💜

      £250.00

    • Gordon & Beth

      Gordon & Beth

      Sep 3, 2018

      Thinking of you all!

      £50.00

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    Hein  Scheffer

    Hein Scheffer

    Aylesbury, Buckinghamshire, UK

    Mark Neethling and I did our national service, years ago in the South African Navy. Over the years we maintained contact, and in June we learned that he had Cancer. During July, Mark told me his story, and after talking with friends of his, we were moved to try and help Mark.

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