I have secret debts of £25,000 which no one knows about. Ive accumulated these debts through providing family with help via loans and credit cards and all of a sudden the realisation has hit that in struggling to afford this.

Im 29 years old, engaged and trying for a child but i fear i may lose everything if i can't pay this off. I feel down constantly and this is slowly ruining my life. I cant ask my family and friends hence why I am staying annonymous and I'm putting all my hope in kind strangers to help me change my life around for the better.

I work in emergency services and aim to help anyone when i can. Im hoping that someone will take a chance and help a man who is severely struggling.

Thanks.