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Closed 27/04/2021
Weʼve raised £4,900 to Fund the Send off Jake deserves
- Funded on Tuesday, 27th April 2021
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We are all saddened with the sudden passing of our beloved Jake. Son, Brother, Uncle, Boyfriend and friend. He was such a bright man and always put a smile on someone’s face. During these hard times our family cannot believe the amount of messages and sympathy wishes given, he truly had such and amazing group of family and friends. There will most definitely be a void for a lot of people now that he has gone.
As some of you might know, Jake tried to take his own life, causing him to spend some time in the intensive care unit. Jake lost the fight. Jake suffered for many years with mental health issues, much deeper than just depression and sadly even with the reach out for help by the medical profession Jake was failed by the system - as are hundreds of other people - the funding within the NHS is simply not available within the mental health specialty. Therefore many people like Jake, are left feeling there is nothing else to do. It’s a huge disappointment that this happens as often as it does and that there is not more we can do about it.
Because this was a very sudden incident, there are no funeral plans in place for him, as well as no funding for a funeral. Whilst the family will do as much as they can within, we have had a few messages and offers showing interest into contributing towards the funeral, out of the love and respect they have for Jake. So we have set this up for those who would like to contribute.
As a family we have decided that any funds left after the funeral has been paid will be donated to a mental health charity (to be decided later) to help people like Jake.
Sadly due to COVID -19, this will not be able to be the huge send off Jake deserves and will have to be kept to family members only. But Jake would be expecting every single person to celebrate his life in their own way. Do this to remind you of the much loved man we have sadly lost. We would love to see your ‘send offs’ posted to Jakes Facebook, as we all know Jake loved a party!
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- 3 years ago
Melody Ovenden
3 years agoWe would like to Thank everyone that has donated towards the funeral for Jake! we are overwhelmed that we reached the target in such a short time. It will make a huge difference in the send off that Jake receives. Anything more that is raised will going straight to a mental health charity, focusing specifically on men's mental health, which is what Jake would have wanted.
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- 3 years ago
Melody Ovenden
3 years agoHappy New Years Everyone! Some of Jakes close friends are throwing a party tribute to Jake over on Liskeard radio! so party all Evening just like Jake would be! we are so close to reaching out target, and our family are so grateful for all your support. keep going and lets be able to donate the extra to a mental health charity for men!
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- 3 years ago
Melody Ovenden
3 years agoThank you so much to everyone that has donated so far! we cannot believe the amount of people have contributed! we are very close already, Don't forget that any funds left over after the funeral will be donated to a mental health charity for men. Keep it going for Jake.
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Feb 2, 2021
Anonymous
Jan 27, 2021
Both Alan myself and family all had a lot of time for Jake. He was kind and thoughtful and would really make us laugh with he outwardly cheery way. Thinking about you Oz and family at this sad time.
Anonymous
Jan 26, 2021
Thinking of you all and sending my love x
Lynn and Dick
Jan 26, 2021
We have no words Mel and Oz that could possibly make your loss any more bearable. Think of you all daily and your gorgeous beloved son Jake. Live every day until you are alive again.Love and hugs xx
£20.00
Sian French
Jan 14, 2021
Well my boy ❤️ I miss you so much! You rest easy up there you hear me! Untill we meet again my friend! I love you! Xxxxx
£20.00
Steph C.
Jan 14, 2021
So sorry for your loss.Sending love and light to you and your family xxx
£20.00
Tim and Annmarie Olver
Jan 7, 2021
Thinking of you all at this sad time,jake will be missed by all,xx
£50.00
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