I was born 2/2/1978 ive had astma all my life, since leaving school ive always worked hard and was in the T.A. ive always paid my stamp at the agd of 21 i was seriously assulted by a family member a few years later i was diagnosed with grand mel epilepsy as a result of the brutal assult. 4 years ago i had an accident at work which caused me serious spinal issues a fracture in the spine and slipped discs, since the accident ive been receiving guinea pig treatment meaning interventions that have failed everytime because the NHS would rather me suffer than spend 15-20k on surgery despite my spinal consultant/surgeon saying i need a spinal fussion the NHS contiously fail me and dont allow the operation to go a head instead. My partner fell pregnant 5 and half years ago at the time she was working but had to give her job up because she was pretty much forced to leave because she was pregnant i would hapilly name and shame the company but i dont want any more issues than i already have.at the time we was living in a flat council high rise we asked for a coucil house but this did not get us anywhere, we apeared in closer magazine being the only workers on that estate, my partners dad gave us the deposit and 1st months rent for a priverate rented house which is over priced for what it is we dont receive any help from our local council we are only just keeping our heads above water ive been on and off antidepresants ive done a pain management course which did nothing a year later her dad past away suddenly, i am restricted to what i can do my issues are holding me back i have been robbed of my abilties and at the rate uk is going i dont see me ever getting the much needed spinal surgery i need i am 40 yrs old i am living like a 70 yr old man i cant do activities with my 5 yr old daughter we want another child but my issues have stop this. All i want us my life back.i hate asking for help but i am getting no where.