I was living and working at a hair salon in Kiev about 5 years ago when I met the most amazing woman in my life. Later I would marry julia and she would continue to make me feel like the luckiest husband in the world. We struggled a lot in Kiev financially, it was very very difficult to make any kind of real living there for me so we saved for 2 years to fly to America. When we arrived we had nothing at all and moved in with a friend. Over the last 1.5 years we have been dealing with the immigration process for her and she has not been able to work until the last 3 months. During this period I have used all our. extra money to save for a car down payment, furniture and all the other necessities. About when things finally started to get normal of course everything went out of control. My wife's grandmother in Kiev has become gravely ill. She left the United States to be with family and due to our immigration process not being complete it has very bad results for us. She will not be able to return after her grandmother passes and must stay in Kiev now until the interview provess can be completed in the U.S Embassy in Kiev. I just spent two weeks with her in Kiev but must return to the states to work. I looked for jobs in Kiev the entire time so that I could just come home pack my things and return to her. I have found no such job while searching that will allow me to securely more and support my wife in Kiev as of this time. Now I have my bills in america and her bills in Kiev and I also need to save money to move to Kiev to be with her. I am feeling completely overwhelmed and like a failure to her as a husband. My Julia is the light of my life and has always been there when I needed. And now that she needs me I am stuck in America for probably 5/6 months before I can save enough to relocate again to Kiev to be with her. I hope someone who reads this can understand my situation enough to want to help me get to where I need to be in Kiev with my Julia.