I was unfortunately financially and mentally abused and thought that by getting credit cards and loans in order to make my ex partners life better was the kind thing to do and how i was going to be loved. Silly now looking back but I was manipulated and just didnt realise what was happening until everything was maxed out. I had lost all confidence and worked 3 jobs to try and pay the minimum monthly payments due to high interest rates. I got pregnant and found out that the person was cheating on me and i was so stressed that i unfortunately had a miscarriage with no emotional or physical support as i was too ashamed to tell my parents who are elderly and in poor health. For the past 7 years i have been struggling to stay up to dates with no missed payments. However my bank have said that by continuing to pay the minimum on my credit card with such high interest rates that it will take 20 plus years to pay off. I have now finally found Mr Right and after thinking that I would never be able to concieve again, it has happened unexpectedly. Im over the moon but so stressed and worried as i have so much debt. I am crowdfunding to enable me to clear all the debt totally which will then allow me to relax, stay healthy in my pregnancy and work only 1 job rather then 3 and actually start a fresh new chapter in life with my family. My dream is to have a property as with all my debt, im unable to get any form of mortgage or rented property and i dont want to continue struggling forever.