So my name is michael I'm 38 and I have 3 brothers and 1 sister, for now I prefeer to leave nameless. My parents split when we were all younger me especially being 3, so we all lived with our mother. Our father somewhat remained in touch but not alot. I myself havent seen him for around 10 yrs or so since a recent funeral. and some of for some of the other its a bit longer.

My mother picture below. Then moved in with her boyfriend, at this point I feel I should say more about her. But how do you describe her, massive hart, unbeleivable cook, loved kids was a foster parent for 10 years, had 10 grandchildren and loved them all equally. her boyfriend after my father was violent towards her so we moved across country from Wiltshire to Great Yarmouth. After a life of looking after all the kids she got breast cancer surrived that. Only to get a for of bone cancer (I cant remember the name of). Also type 1 diabeties, and a brain tumour. And pass away at the age of 62. My brother in her last stages of her life was really mean to her because of mental problems that made the whole families life hell. He would hold 17 hour sieges with the police threatening to blow his house up and kill himself, the christmas before she died he strangled half the family members and police were call over a petty argument, This turned out to be her las christmas. The morning of the 2nd Nov 16, My foster brother tried waking her but she wouldnt wake up so we rung for an ambulance and got to A&E but i knew on the way, she only had 2 days left to live the doctor told me. She was breating but unconious as the only bit of her brain left to be taken by the tumour was the part that controls breathing. Also she had no berial site no grave stone. because my brothers are so petty we had to split her ashes and all had a box each to remember her our own ways.

My brother in law (pictured below with my sister), my sisters husband also passed away 6 moths later of bowel cancer and he passed away in their bedroom found by her and her 16 year old son, vomiting blood and other bodily fluids. This as you can imagine was very traumatic. Both deaths so soon and so suddenly.

My brothers have always hated me and my sis and want nothing to do with us but they have amazing jobs nice houses cars and families while my sister (who has 2 children a boy 16 and a girl 19 who now has a 1 year old herself) and I sturggle on benifits, suffering from depression anxiety, not eating properly ect.

So this money would make a massive difference to our life as we could get away for a weekend and do something special. Also my sisters son is going to Ciprus in the summer to see his grandparents (fathers parents), and i would love for him to have some spending money and a great time.