I am a single parent of 3 wonderful respectful young humans one of which has complex disbilties possibly the product of an abusive father , i have seen twins struggle premature birth and the many affects that can cause over the years , being let down by the Law and legal system for many years and being held to ransom by a natcissist that will see his children struggle because of his obsession with me , finally i had to leave my home for my sanity and my childrens sanity still trying to rely on the support of the law , i have been stalked for two years and finding a tracker under my car which has taken a year so far to investigate and yet i still feel under siege , there is no support as far as legal aid goes and i have been blessed enough to now get some legal support after a year and a half , yet my chikdrens father has wealth and is not made to give back what he has stolen from me , and now i cannot support my son yet i am determing to battle with him even though he said he would kill my family i will stand up to this bully no matter what , i want my children to know that it is a trap to be forced onto a benefit system and to have good work ethic and respect is paramount and to be kind and help others when they can, my son is the main concern the world can be a cruel place i have always taken care of him myself but pathing a way for him that is safe going forward is important as he only has us , i lost my parents young and know the effects can be devasting , with some help and support to get out of a hole i want to still be able to take care of my family not have to rely on benefit and be able to work and set an example, my goal is to be able to write and help young girls that need guidence that domestic violence abuse is not acceptable and creates desprate consequences i am living proof of this , our laws and legal system need to change my two daughters are both training for different careers yet one of them suffers anxiety from the fear she had living with her father and she also has some health issues , i will continue to support my son however with help i can also get support for myself also , and my only wish is to be able to work and be able to give my family a less stressful life and not have to worry about day to day necessities food , bills , heating and lighting my son is complex and is expensive to support i dont want to deprive him his life has been an uphill struggle thus far with illness surgery and great difficulties it is incomprehensible that a father would see any child suffer let alone a young person whom suffers great difficulties my aim is to make sure he at least will have a roof over his head for the future for now that future looks bleak and i will not give up , i wish to remain anonymous simply for security for myself and my family