Hi everyone. This is probably the most embarrasing thing i‘ve done...my partner and I both work full time. I have two children from a previous relationship. Both children live with is 50% of the year. My partner and I also have just had our own baby. We qualify for no benefits as our joint income is too high. However it has come to light that my partner has loads of debt. I only knew about some of it. We’re now drowning financially and there is no way out. We just want a second chance financially and want to start from scratch again if we can. All we want to do is bring up our kids as best we can but the money issues are making life very very stressfull. As you can imagine she is very emotional right now as our child is only two months old. I feel like i’ve failed as a partner as I can’t help her any further. If people could please help I would forever be greatfull. I just want to make them all happy and bring some sanity back to our home.

I’ve added this later....if by some miracle someone were to pay off all the debts we would be happy to pay the money back. We’d just make an arrangement for affordable fixed payments. We just need chance to do this.