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SAFE BED FOR VIOLET
Violet is a 7 year old girl from derbyshire who has rett syndrome this condition effects 1 in 10000 girls this condition is cruel to those who have it and for those who love them.
Violet is in desperate need of a safe bed to give her the safety she needs and this will also provide her amazing parents with some much needed rest as she requires around the clock supervision to keep her safe a safe bed would mean the whole family will get some much needed sleep and will allow everyone to recharge a little
Local authorities have been approached and will not help unfortunately leaving the family to try and provide one themselves and at £4000 this is just not feasible
If your able to donate no matter how small it will be a massive help to all the family
Also please share far and wide lets get this wonderful girl her bed together we are stronger
Below are some words from violets parents
Rett Syndrome is a rare, neurological condition which most often strikes previously healthy young children between their first and second birthday leaving them with multiple disabilities and medical complexities for life.
It is estimated that Rett Syndrome affect 1:10000 children, the symptoms can appear quickly or take months to develop.
Most children will lose the ability to speak and use their hand at an early age. Some never walk or even sit. Some do however more than half of those that learn to walk will lose their mobility in their teens.
There are currently no approved treatments for Rett Syndrome either to slow the progression of the condition or manage the symptoms
Our beautiful girl Violet is 1:10000 with Rett Syndrome.
To receive that diagnosis for our baby girl was devastating for us as a family, we had never heard of Rett before and the unknown can be terrifying!
Imagine the symptoms of Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Parkinson's, Epilepsy and anxiety disorders all in one 7 year old little girl who fights the battle relentlessly every day whilst at the same time being silenced by her condition as she is now unable to speak.
Rett Syndrome has 4 stages:
1. Early Signs
At first, the child will appear to develop and grow normally for at least 6 months. There may be subtle signs of Rett syndrome before the child is recognised as having a problem (especially with hindsight).
Stage 1 is sometimes described as "stagnation". Symptoms include:
low muscle tone (hypotonia)
difficulty feeding
unusual, repetitive hand movements or jerky limb movements
delay with development of speech
mobility problems, such as problems sitting, crawling and walking
lack of interest in toys
These symptoms typically begin from 6 to 18 months and often last for several months, although they can persist for a year or more.
Stage 1 can often go unnoticed because the changes occur gradually and may be subtle.
Stage 2: regression
During stage 2, known as "regression" or the "rapid destructive stage", the child starts to lose some of their abilities. This stage usually begins between the ages of 1 and 4 and may last for any time from 2 months to more than 2 years.
The child will gradually or suddenly start to develop severe problems with communication and language, memory, mobility, co-ordination and other brain functions. Some of the characteristics and behaviours are similar to those of autism.
Signs at this stage include:
loss of the ability to use the hands purposefully – repetitive hand movements are often difficult to control and include wringing, washing, clapping or tapping
periods of distress, irritability and sometimes screaming for no obvious reason
social withdrawal – a loss of interest in people and avoidance of eye contact
unsteadiness and awkwardness when walking
problems sleeping
slowing of head growth
difficulty eating, chewing or swallowing, and sometimes constipation that may cause stomach aches
problems with heart rate or heart rhythm
Later on during regression, the child may experience periods of rapid breathing (hyperventilation) or slow breathing, including breath-holding.
Stage 3: plateau
Stage 3 of Rett syndrome can begin as early as 2 years or as late as 10 years. It often lasts for many years, with many children remaining in this stage for most of their lives.
During stage 3, some of the stage 2 symptoms may get better – for example, there may be improvements in behaviour, with less irritability and crying.
Symptoms at this stage include:
seizures
irregular breathing patterns may get worse – for example, shallow breathing followed by rapid, deep breathing, or breath-holding
Gaining and maintaining weight can also be difficult to achieve.
Stage 4: deterioration in movement
Stage 4 can last for years or even decades. The main symptoms at this stage are:
Development of a spinal curve (the spine bending to the left or right side), known as scoliosis. This is more likely from the age of 6 years, and the risk reduces after puberty
muscle weakness and spasticity (abnormal stiffness, particularly in the legs)
losing the ability to walk
Communication, language skills and brain function do not tend to get any worse during stage 4. The repetitive hand movements may decrease and eye gaze usually improves.
After a recent hospital trip we were told that Violet is now in Stage 4 and has developed scoliosis which is affecting her mobility, something else for our girl to have to deal with.
Violet has been silenced by her condition but Steve and i will forever be her voice
Thank you for reading
Natalie and Steve xx