When he was at his home he was betThe problem ive got is that our foster child is trying to change and live the life most of us live except his life was horrible before he came to our home we have tried our best to let him live the good life he deserves like any human does When he was at his real home he was bullied beaten and brusied by his older brothers and his own parents and he learnt to stand up to them and to protect his younger siblings therefor i am trying to help sort his life out so he can be happy all the time and he has spent 8 years in a posetion you and i would never eant to be in.