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Rebecca Travers is raising money for Havens Hospices

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Virgin London Marathon 2011 · 17 April 2011 ·

When an adult or child has been diagnosed with a complex or incurable condition, Havens Hospices can provide the care they need, ‘Making every day count’. Our specialist Care Teams can support them in the comfort of their own home and through our hospices, Fair Havens and Little Havens.

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<p><strong>IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY DEAR MUM</strong></p> <p>Maureen Atkinson&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 26.07.41 - 13.01.11</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Thankyou for taking the time to visit my JustGiving page. As my brother Forrest would say ...</p> <p><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">"Momma always says there's an awful lot you could tell about&nbsp;a person by their shoes. Where they're going. Where they've been. I've worn lots of shoes."</span></em></p> <p><span style="color: #000000;">I've worn a lot of shoes too, but the pair you're most likely to see me in at the moment are my running shoes.</span></p> <p><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">"That day, for no particular reason, I decided to go for a little run. So I ran to the end of the road, and when I got there, I thought maybe I'd run to the end of town. And when I got there, I thought maybe I'd just run across Greenbow County ......... For no particular reason, I just kept on going........... When I got tired, I slept. When I got hungry, I ate. When I had to go, you know, I went. </span></em></p> <p><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">Sir, so why are you running?"</span></em><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">&nbsp;</span></em></p> <p><span style="color: #000000;">Because in the not so distant future I will be forty and I want to run a marathon before I totally lose the plot!</span></p> <p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><span style="color: #000000;">"</span><em>Are you doing this for world peace? Are you doing this for women's rights? Or for the environment? Or for animals? Or for nuclear arms?"</em></span></p> <p>Well, I'm running to raise much-needed funds for Havens Hospices.</p> <p>My good friends, Sarah &amp; Rob de Cristofano,&nbsp;are grateful for the support of Havens in caring for their ten year old daughter, Lili, who suffers from a very rare disease, Fucosidosis. Sadly, friends Katie &amp; Keith Gregory also now use Little&nbsp;Havens after their eight week-old son, Frazer, last year became critically ill with a brain infection.</p> <p>In January of this year, my own lovely mum, Little Mo, was diagnosed with advanced terminal cancer. Sadly, she lived less than one day after diagnosis.&nbsp;As mum had&nbsp;worked for many years as a Hospice volunteer, I am passionate about supporting the adult hospice movement.</p> <p>Havens Hospices is&nbsp;a local charity, and one that is close to my heart.</p> <p><span style="color: #0000ff;"><em>"One day it started raining, and it didn't quit for four months. We been through every kind of rain there is. Little bitty stingin' rain... and big ol' fat rain. Rain that flew in sideways. And sometimes rain even seemed to come straight up from underneath."</em></span></p> <p><span style="color: #000000;">Rain and I have become very well acquainted - as you can see from some of the photographs!!!!!</span></p> <p><span style="color: #000000;">"</span><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">Momma says stupid is as stupid does."</span></em></p> <p><span style="color: #000000;">Sometimes when I'm miles from home,&nbsp;I think this really was a case of 'stupid does'!! </span></p> <p><em><span style="color: #0000ff;">"Life is like a box of chocolates, Forrest. You never know what you're gonna get."</span></em></p> <p>Well, I know what I'm gonna get ... blisters, chafing, jogger's nipple, sore legs and bloody sore feet so please dig deep and donate now!</p> <p>Thank you xxxxxxx</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><span style="color: #800080;">In 1982, I watched my first London Marathon. My Dad's friend, Bill Snelgrove, was running, and we stood on Tower Bridge to cheer him on. It was Bill's first marathon and he ran it in an incredible 2 hours and 19 minutes. The excitement of that day has always stayed with me and when I decided to embark on my first marathon, Bill was very supportive (when others thought I was just plain mad), offering to be my mentor. Sadly, Bill died unexpectedly, aged just 54 on 10th January 2011.</span></p> <p><strong><span style="color: #800080;"><em>May Mum's wings and Bill's legs give me strength on April 17th xxxx</em></span></strong></p> <p>Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally secure. Your details are safe with JustGiving &ndash; they&rsquo;ll never sell them on or send unwanted emails. Once you donate, they&rsquo;ll send your money directly to the charity and make sure Gift Aid is reclaimed on every eligible donation by a UK taxpayer. So it&rsquo;s the most efficient way to donate - I raise more, whilst saving time and cutting costs for the charity.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;" lang="EN-US">The Dash Poem</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">by Linda Ellis</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">I read of a man who stood to speak</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">At the funeral of a friend</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">He referred to the dates on her tombstone</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">From the beginning to the end</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">He noted that first came the date of her birth</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And spoke the following date with tears,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">But he said what mattered most of all</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Was the dash between those years</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">For that dash represents all the time</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">That she spent alive on earth.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And now only those who loved her</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Know what that little line is worth.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">For it matters not how much we own;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">The cars, the house, the cash,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">What matters is how we live and love</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And how we spend our dash.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">So think about this long and hard.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Are there things you&rsquo;d like to change?</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">For you never know how much time is left,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">That can still be rearranged.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">If we could just slow down enough</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">To consider what&rsquo;s true and real</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And always try to understand</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">The way other people feel.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And be less quick to anger,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And show appreciation more</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And love the people in our lives</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Like we&rsquo;ve never loved before.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">If we treat each other with respect,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">And more often wear a smile</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Remembering that this special dash</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Might only last a little while.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">So, when your eulogy is being read</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">With your life&rsquo;s actions to rehash</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">Would you be proud of the things they say</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 10pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;" lang="EN-US">About how you spent your dash?</span></p> <p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>

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