My story

So, I've decided to embarrass myself by entering the Men's Health Survival of the Fittest event in November. It's a 10km run round Battersea power station with various obstacles, and I'll be raising money for Bliss as I do it.

 

Bliss is the charity for premature babies and their families in the UK. About 80,000 babies are born early every year, which is dangerous for them and incredibly difficult for their parents. Bliss offers advice and support for parents, and funds research projects to try to improve the care available for babies.

 

Some of you will know that I was born very early, at 27 weeks - about three months before I should have been. I weighed about 2lb 8oz. I'm lucky to be here at all, and even luckier not to have any lasting side-effects.

 

As well as being premature I was also a twin, which meant I was even smaller. My brother, Thomas, died the day after we were born. The photos you can see are of me in the weeks and months after I was born.

 

I asked my mum and dad to tell me a bit about how they found having a premature baby - they wrote this (from my mum's perspective):

 

"I was 27 weeks pregnant and carrying twins when I started having contractions at home at night. The ambulance took me to the nearest hospital with a Special Care Baby Unit 35 minutes away. After a while being monitored there I was told I was going to have the babies and they were sending me in an ambulance to a hospital with an Intensive Unit for premature babies 1 ½ hours away. On route I started to need to push and the ambulance diverted to another hospital where the babies were born. I glimpsed them briefly wrapped up in incubators before they were taken to complete their journey to the hospital with Intensive Care, where my husband, Mike, was waiting for them. I was not yet fit to travel and so stayed behind. The next day, the news was broken that the first twin, Thomas had died. He was too premature and his lungs were unable to breathe. Jamie, the second twin, was still fighting for his life in Intensive Care.

 

Jamie stayed in Intensive care for about 10 weeks. He was dependant on a ventilator at first and treated for jaundice. During this period we got to hold him about once a week, with oxygen being piped into his nose or given through a mask. There was the fear of infections, hydrocephalus or brain haemorrhage. Visiting the hospital was a round trip of 3 hours plus the time spent with Jamie. Monitors bleeped and sometimes alarms went off. Technical terms like bradycardia (slow or paused heartbeat) and apnoea (paused breathing) became everyday experiences. After 10 weeks, Jamie was moved to a nearer hospital with ordinary Special Care, where he spent 6 weeks. The fear that he, too, might not survive began to recede.

 

Jamie came home at last after 16 weeks, attached to an apnoea alarm, which would warn us if he stopped breathing, and after a lesson on how to resuscitate a baby.

 

Jamie proved to be a fighter and we are all very lucky that he has suffered no long-term effects from his difficult start in life. The hospital staff not only saved his life, but offered us vital support and encouragement, both over Thomas’ death and Jamie’s battle for recovery. Without medical expertise and technology he wouldn’t be here today."

 

Donating to Bliss will help them carry on their work and support more families at such a scary time. So please sponsor me for as much as you can, and help some tiny tiny people (and don't forget the Gift Aid!).

 

Jamie x

My charity

Bliss, for babies born too soon, too small, too sick

Bliss, for babies born too soon, too small, too sick

Charity Registration No. 1002973, Registered Scottish Charity SC040878

Bliss is the UK charity for premature and sick babies. We offer guidance and information at a critical time in families' lives and we also fund ground-breaking research and campaign for babies to receive the best possible level of care regardless of when and where they are born.

Donations 15

Good luck x

Donation by lucy emily brownhill on 11/11/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Donation by Hector Roddan on 13/10/11

Donation by Anonymous on 10/10/11

£10.00

Pika pika....

Donation by Paul Stollery on 10/10/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Well done Jamie you can do it.

Donation by peter thunder on 07/10/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

For the Jamies of the future!

Donation by Sam Hurst on 29/09/11

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

Go Jamie Dance, GO!!

Donation by Frances Parry on 27/09/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Good luck Jamie. Am sure you will do it inspired by this great cause. Jane

Donation by Jane Knight on 26/09/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Great cause, we'll be doing this side-by-side but best of luck anyway pal x

Donation by Thomas Barnett on 24/09/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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I can barely run ten metres, let alone kilometres, so this is for being better than me. :)

Donation by Richard Wood on 24/09/11

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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Good luck on your run which is for an extremely worthwhile cause. Paul & Sarah xo

Donation by Paul Fellows (rpcompaneros) on 21/09/11

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Because I remember when you were that little!

Donation by Judith Hibbert on 20/09/11

£10.00

Go Jamie! for all the tiny people !

Donation by Mike Thunder on 20/09/11

£50.00

+ £12.50 Gift Aid

Good luck Mr Thunder!

Donation by natalia popova on 20/09/11

£10.00

Good luck with it x

Donation by Sarah Welfare on 20/09/11

£5.00

+ £1.25 Gift Aid

Donation summary

  • * Online donations£195.00
  • Offline donations£45.00
  • Text donations£0.00
  • Total raised£240.00
  • Gift Aid£41.25

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