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John, beloved Husband of Jean; Dad to Allister, Douglas, Dot and Susie and Grumps to Katie, Hugo, Angus, Harry, Callum and Talia, sadly passed away on Sunday the 28th June, having fought hard to stay with us. Having left sunny Leith in his early 20's he spent the rest of his adult life, living and travelling in various parts of the world, in particular South America, where they made lifelong friends.

 

He was a congenial host at their many parties, loved fine dining and he wasn't afraid to try weird local delicacies, in particular anything 'Offaly', and fancied himself as a wine connoisseur. He was always to be found reading a newspaper or doing a variety of puzzles. He occasionally played golf if it was sunny! He could often be found playing backgammon with a cigar and port in hand into the wee hours of the morning after a get together with close friends or his sons.

 

Dad loved listening to music, his favourite pieces were always played very loudly and he would sing along or pretend to be the conductor. He enjoyed and was a good dancer and loved nothing more than leading Mum around the dance floor, be it to a Tango, a Waltz, or some modern noise!

As Grumps, he loved to spoil his six Grandchildren, by being a ready supplier of Jammy Dodgers and chocolate. His study was a favourite place for them to find an assortment of exciting toys.

 

He was always a good listener when necessary but enjoyed a good joke and was often to be found stirring and teasing. We will miss him greatly.

 

If you would like to make a donation in his memory we have chosen the British Liver Trust.  It is the only national charity working to reduce the impact of liver disease in the UK by doing valuable research.

 Liver disease is the only one of the five big killers on the rise; the British Liver Trust is calling for greater awareness of the three key life-style risks associated with developing liver disease - alcohol, viral hepatitis and obesity.

 

 “Liver disease is often preventable,” says Imogen Shillito, Director of Information and Education at the Trust, “but because it is a silent killer with no symptoms it is frequently at an advanced stage before being diagnosed.  Men are renowned for avoiding visits to their GPs, but a conversation about risk factors together with a simple blood test can pick up any warning signs of liver damage."

 

In fond memory of halcyon days in Peru Donation by Kit & Gillian Marshall 16/07/09  

£25.00 + £7.05 Gift Aid

I have such lovely memories of John. Always with a smile and ready to crack a joke. He will be sadly missed. Donation by Sarah Cross 15/07/09  

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We shall miss John very much especially his dry sense of humour. He was a good friend and colleague. Donation by Alan and Susan Cross 14/07/09  

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. He was always the congenial host, backed-up as ever by the unflappable Jean, who somehow managed to provide for everyone. Donation by roger cotton 14/07/09  

Remembering many years of fun and laughter both here in UK and in France. Friday was a wonderful tribute to John Donation by Charmian Dominy 13/07/09  

£25.00 + £7.05 Gift Aid

Donation by Anonymous 13/07/09  

£40.00 + £11.28 Gift Aid

I am so sorry for your loss. Donation by Kerry 09/07/09  

£20.00 + £5.64 Gift Aid

Donation by Anonymous 08/07/09  

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I didn't get to know John, but I am can just see he was a great man. I have however known Jean for more than 10 years whilst teaching her aqua aerobics. I have got to know Jean more over the last 8 months when she has offered me help and support in dealing with my husband's illness. I hope both I and her friends and family are able to offer her the friendship and support she will now need. Donation by Lyane Junor 08/07/09  

£20.00 + £5.64 Gift Aid

We are so sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of John, such a gentleman. Sorry we cannot be with you on Friday. Liz Donation by Liz and Geoff Chittenden 07/07/09  

£10.00 + £2.82 Gift Aid

Dearest Susie and family, remember all the happy times! Think of one now & smile xxx We love U Donation by Amanda and Ian Brown 06/07/09  

£15.00 + £4.23 Gift Aid

Thanks John for the happy memories from BOLSA Trainee Course 1956 and later in Lima etc. I hope you rest well. Donation by Archie Buchanan 06/07/09  

£50.00

Dear Susie and family, thinking of you all at this difficult time. x Donation by Claire Tait 06/07/09  

£10.00 + £2.82 Gift Aid

Dearest Susie and Family, So sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you. With love Maria & Martin Field xx Donation by Maria Field 06/07/09  

£30.00

We will always have very fond memories of John, especially sunny BBQs in Madrid. Fond regards to the family. Sue and Derek Taylor Donation by Derek Taylor 05/07/09  

£100.00 + £28.21 Gift Aid

We shall all miss a lovely man and great friend.Sorry but with you in spirit only on Friday Donation by Ian&Chris Smelt and family 04/07/09  

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To Doug & Family, we were so sorry to hear of your loss. We will all be thinking of you. Donation by London & European 03/07/09  

£30.00

Deeply regretted by George and Mireya Wilson and Ursula Wilson Donation by George Wilson 03/07/09  

£20.00

Condolences to all the Scriveners... our thoughts are with you. Donation by Toby and Charlotte Trotman 02/07/09  

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We are thinking of you all x Donation by Lynn Rankin 02/07/09  

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over and above the moustache, I'll also remember that lovely Scottish accent and constant chuckle ! Donation by Toots 02/07/09  

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He also had the moustache that was the envy of all men! Thinking of you all. xxxx Donation by Louise Beeken 02/07/09  

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