My story

Chris and I are taking part in the Sunrise Walk for Winston's Wish, in memory of my big sister Mandi and to support her two boys.

Mandi passed away suddenly on 20 May 2012, leaving her husband Andy and two sons (5yo and 3yo). To say we were in shock is an understatement: however, in addition to taking time to grieve ourselves, it was most important to all of us to support the boys.

Explaining things to the boys was incredibly difficult, as was planning for how they could be involved in the funeral, to say goodbye to their Mum in a way they would understand. We also knew that there would be further challenges ahead, in answering any questions the boys had and ensuring that they understood that they were safe, and loved.

Winston's Wish provided invaluable support in those first few days, both through the materials available on their website and through the helpful, kind and understanding volunteers on their helpline. They provided much-needed advice and reassurance in those first few days, and it is a comfort to know that they are there to help us support the boys in the future.

Winston’s Wish rely almost entirely on voluntary contributions to raise over £1.7million needed to maintain the service every year. This is what the charity says about how the money will be used:

£50 funds one of our specialist team answering six calls to our helpline – maybe for the first time that these callers have spoken to anyone about their concerns for a bereaved child.

£100 will give priceless support to bereaved children and their families:

• Ten specialist publications sent out to helpline callers.
• One individual session for a young person or family member with one of our practitioners.

£250 could fund a pre-school child to attend one of our special under 5’s group sessions.

£500 could fund four face to face sessions for a child and their family with two of our specialist family practitioners.

£1,000 could enable a teenage girl to attend our young women’s support group for six weeks.

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My updates 1

Did the walk on Saturday, it was an absolutely beautiful day! I've got some photos here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/39418476@N07/sets/72157631555910425/with/7995151134/ Thank you so much to everyone who's donated - I'm thrilled to have raised so much for Winston's Wish :)

17/09/12 14:00

My charity

Winston's Wish

Winston's Wish

Charity Registration No. 1061359

Winston's Wish supports children following the expected or sudden death of their mother, father, brother or sister. Recognised as a leading authority on the provision of child bereavement services across the UK, it is also the largest provider of bereavement services for children in Europe.

Donations 72

I've found your story incredibly moving. Good to meet you yesterday!

Donation by Claire Lucas on 26/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Donation by Anonymous on 20/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Well done. What a good thing to do. Lots of love to you and Chris Esther , Peter and co. x

Donation by Peter Woods on 19/09/12

£200.00

+ £50.00 Gift Aid

Donation by Chris Green on 18/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Donation by Janice Hunter on 18/09/12

£5.00

+ £1.25 Gift Aid

Donation by Catherine Salway on 17/09/12

£5.00

+ £1.25 Gift Aid

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Well done you gorgeous pair xxxxx big hugs xxx

Donation by Louise Miller on 17/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Donation by Rebecca Morby on 17/09/12

£20.00

+ £5.00 Gift Aid

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Hope it went well Laura, thinking of you. From one awesome Woodsie to another :D

Donation by Ellen Woods on 15/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Donation by Claire on 15/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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SO MUCH LOVE!! Thinking of you every step of the way, and not just while you're doing this walk - all the time. You're BRILLIANT & we are in awe. xx

Donation by Jo and Darryl on 14/09/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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You're making a real difference with every penny you raise.

Donation by Suzanne Wheatley on 14/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Good Luck guys I hope you get to your target

Donation by elaine reynolds on 09/09/12

£5.00

+ £1.25 Gift Aid

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Hope you get your total

Donation by Ruan Peat on 07/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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I hope you reach your target x

Donation by Clare Brown on 07/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Saw the reminder on your blog - been meaning to do this for ages! Hope you reach your total, it's a fantastic cause x

Donation by Annie on 06/09/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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So sorry to hear about your news. I've been thinking of you.

Donation by Sarah Wolfenden on 05/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Well done Laura, hope you reach your target! xx

Donation by @laurajwilkinson on 04/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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You didn't say it was a sunrise walk! I'll think of you when I am snuggly in my bed! I hope it doesn't rain!

Donation by Shona McQueen on 03/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Good Luck to both of you. I've been thinking of you all at this difficult time and I'm so you've raised so much already. Much love, Fenn.xxxx

Donation by Matt Fennell on 03/09/12

£15.00

+ £3.75 Gift Aid

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Love love, Troy will donate too. xxxx

Donation by Clare Ellis on 02/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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Good Luck Laura. I'm sure your family would be proud of you. Take care, Seema xxooxx

Donation by Seema Rampersad on 01/09/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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wow! Look how much has been raised already. Good luck to both of you :D xxx

Donation by Kathryn Selby on 31/08/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

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With all my love to the whole family... Good luck!

Donation by Emmanuelle Percheval Hiver on 30/08/12

£10.00

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This is a really great cause, good luck!

Donation by Samantha Sergeant on 30/08/12

£10.00

+ £2.50 Gift Aid

Donation summary

  • * Online donations$1,822.70
  • Offline donations$0.00
  • Text donations$0.00
  • Total raised$1,822.70
  • Gift Aid$424.25

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