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Matthew O'Farrell is raising money for MAIN
“Matthew O'Farrell's fundraising”

on 30 June 2011

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MAIN has a mission to help local children, young people and adults living with a range of disabilities by giving them the skills they need to live an independent life, while having fun and making friends. In 2021 our appeal is MAIN's Big Build - https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/MAINsBigBuild

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<p>Thanks for taking the time to visit my JustGiving page.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I am&nbsp;26 year old adult with Aspergers Syndrome.&nbsp;I was diagnosed with having the condition as an adult (20).</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Over the years&nbsp;I have found social interaction quite difficult this has been most prevalent when&nbsp;I go for a hair cut. &ldquo;This is because I've found that the hairdressers I've been to before tend to chat to me as if I'm an old friend even though I don't know them, and this makes me very uncomfortable and anxious!&rdquo;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Due to the uncomfortable experiences&nbsp;I have gone through over the years he decided that it was too difficult to go through the torturous time of sitting in a barber&rsquo;s chair. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Five years down the line and&nbsp;I still has not gone back to the hairdressers and has never had a hair cut in that time.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Around 18 months ago&nbsp;I came into contact with The Main Project; a charity that provides advice, support and services to people with an autistic spectrum condition across the Tees Valley.&nbsp;I have since been working here as both a volunteer and an employee.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I&nbsp;have worked in the MAIN Meal kitchen; he has co-presented Autism Awareness courses both at The Main Project and at external sites such as schools and other businesses.&nbsp;I now has an administrations role within the MAIN Project.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">Through the support given to&nbsp;me during his time at the MAIN Project he has decided that he is finally ready to get his hair cut again after five long years.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">As this is a massive event for&nbsp;me I have decided that&nbsp;I would not only get&nbsp;my hair cut&nbsp;but I&nbsp;would like to do it as a charity event.&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">I have&nbsp;decided to donate all sponsorship money to the MAIN Project.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman;">As this is a major event in&nbsp;my life we would like to gain as much publicly for the event as possible, we are therefore looking for your support to make this event a big success for myself, and to give&nbsp;me the confidence to over come his anxiety on a regular basis.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">The Hair cut will take place on the 11<sup>th</sup> July Time to be confirmed</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: small;">PLEASE DIG DEEP</span></p> <p> <p>Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally secure. Your details are safe with JustGiving &ndash; they&rsquo;ll never sell them on or send unwanted emails. Once you donate, they&rsquo;ll send your money directly to the charity and make sure Gift Aid is reclaimed on every eligible donation by a UK taxpayer. So it&rsquo;s the most efficient way to donate - I raise more, whilst saving time and cutting costs for the charity.</p> <p>So please dig deep and donate now.</p> </p>

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