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We have set up this page in memory of Brian our most amazing and inspirational husband, dad and grandad.

 

Brian passed away peacefully in his sleep in the early hours of Sunday 16th August 2009. He fought a courageous battle against cancer for over 10 months and it was only in the last week of his life that it became apparent that he was not going to survive. Amazingly he didn’t once moan or complain about the treatment that he was receiving no matter how tough it was.  He is an inspiration to his family with his positive attitude and zest for life that was present up until the very end.

 

Brian’s last days were spent at the Ellenor Lions Hospice in Northfleet, Kent where he received the most amazing care and support from every member of staff that he had contact with. We, as his family were made to feel that we were the most important people in the world whenever we visited Brian whatever the time of day or night. We are still receiving the care and support of the hospice staff and it is for this reason that on behalf of Brian we would like to raise as much money as possible to help support this organisation which is entirely funded by public donations. By giving in memory of Brian you will go some way to help the hospice raise the £4.7 million it costs to run each year.

 

We are having a memorial service in celebration of Brian’s life for family and friends at St Nicholas Church, Church St, Southfleet, Kent, DA13 9NR. Kick off on 2nd September at 12.30pm. Dress code: NOT BLACK. Although this will be a sad occasion we as his family feel privileged to have been part of Brian’s life for so long and would ask that instead of giving flowers you may feel able to make a donation to The Ellenor Lions Hospice via Just giving at the following web address. The church service will be followed by a buffet and tea/ coffee at West Malling Golf Club, Trottiscliffe Road, Addington, West Malling, Kent. ME19 5AR. Brian’s grandsons will be running a putting competition with all monies raised being donated to the hospice.

 

 

 

In memory of my lovely man Brian, also my sister in law, Aileen Donation by joyce upson 02/11/09  

£25.00 + £7.05 Gift Aid

Brian, the perfect 'gentle' man, genuine & extremely likeable, he will leave a wonderful memory in the hearts of those who knew him. Donation by Ray, Sue & Natalie 21/09/09  

£50.00 + £14.10 Gift Aid

Brian will be sorely missed as a Husband, Father & Grandfather. Our hearts go out to all the family. Donation by Steve, Kim, Hollie & Rob 14/09/09  

£20.00 + £5.64 Gift Aid

Very sorry to hear of your sad loss Donation by Andrew Dockerill 13/09/09  

£30.00 + £8.46 Gift Aid

In memory of Brian, from The Ladies Section of West Malling Golf Club Donation by Caroline Harrison (Treasurer) 09/09/09  

£50.00

To the memory of Brian from the members of the Pegasus Golf Society. Donation by Goff Norrington (Treasurer) 03/09/09  

£50.00

For Brian, a good friend who was always patient and always smiling, we shall miss him. Donation by Ken and Molly 03/09/09  

£100.00 + £28.21 Gift Aid

Brian was a wonderful family man, for whom nothing to do with family was too much. He will be greatly missed. God Bless. Donation by Auntie & The Prescott Clan 01/09/09  

£40.00 + £11.28 Gift Aid

To a wonderful man and friend from Ellen & Peter, Sharon, Grace & David Donation by Peter Clarke 01/09/09  

£50.00 + £14.10 Gift Aid

From One Mate to Another, Thanks Brian Peter Pam & Family Donation by Peter J Williamson 01/09/09  

£40.00 + £11.28 Gift Aid

A lovely person to have known over the years, Brian will be sadly missed by us all. From Mandy & staff at Archery House.Dartford Donation by Ann Sage 31/08/09  

£27.50

In Memory of a dear Brother. God Bless. Roger, Jan & Michael Donation by Roger Upson 29/08/09  

£50.00 + £14.10 Gift Aid

For Brian, an honest, kind and decent friend. Donation by Reginald Manston 26/08/09  

£25.00 + £7.05 Gift Aid

Donation by Douglas Smith 26/08/09  

£50.00 + £14.10 Gift Aid

Donation by Jean Shekyls 26/08/09  

£20.00

It was a pleasure to have known and worked with such a lovely gentleman who will be greatly missed by all his friends and colleagues at Trichem. Donation by Mike, Debbie and team 25/08/09  

£100.00 + £28.21 Gift Aid

I'm very sorry to hear of Brian's passing - he was a good friend for many years. Donation by John Dougherty 24/08/09  

£25.00 + £7.05 Gift Aid

Donation by joyce upson 23/08/09  

£100.00 + £28.21 Gift Aid

A good friend who will be sadly missed Donation by Mike and Jan Hatton 22/08/09  

£20.00 + £5.64 Gift Aid

Donation by david jones 22/08/09  

£20.00 + £5.64 Gift Aid

To a wonderful Dad and Grandad, love from Steve, Jane, Mark and Jack. Donation by The Upson mob 19/08/09  

£100.00 + £28.21 Gift Aid
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