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My story

 

Dad never knew he had Prostate Cancer until the last year of his life when he was diagnosed as having secondary cancer to his spine.

He had nothing more than a back ache in the summer of 2004 and was still working on site as a builder. But by September of that year, Dad had severe leg pain and was then diagnosed with cancer and told he could have had it for approximately 4 years.

Dad never at any stage wanted to know the likely outcome, even having spinal compression the following summer, leaving him paralysed chest down. He never gave up the fight.  Life was so precious to Dad and just like any 'big kid' he had plenty of dreams that he so wanted to fulfil.

I cannot help but feel that this was not Dad's time to go and at 57 still had so much to live for. With a better awareness of this cancer, we might have read all the small signs earlier than 4 years down the line and maybe given Dad a better chance of survival.

If nothing else is achieved by entering this Triathlon, than raising a little awareness to this huge un-spoken about cancer, then we have succeeded.

So here's the team - Me (Daughter No 1), Mum,  husband Robert and our dear friend Vern (he must be more mad than we are). Sally (Daughter No 2), to our surprise and delight, has fallen pregnant and unfortunately had to pull out of the race. Now, her main duties on the day will be to ensure we get loads of encouragement and complete the massive task of helping Mum find her bike !!!!

So, on Saturday 5th August 2006 we'll be competing in the London Triathlon. For those of you not familiar with the format it all starts with a 750m swim followed by a 20km cycle and then to finish it all up a 5km run!!!! Rob and Vern have been warned that they may have to carry Mum and I over the finish line to ensure we all finish the race.

If Dad were here now he'd say, 'You're all mad' but I know deep down he would be so proud.

A small percentage of the money raised will be going to the Isabel Hospice in Welwyn Garden City, where Dad was cared for so well in the last weeks of his life.  It's important to us that they get some form of recognition for all their dedication and compassion in caring for us as a family as well as Dad.

Thank you for visiting our site and I do hope you will dig deep to help this much needed charity.

www.prostate-cancer.org.uk/

Donation by iain freeman 18/08/06  

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bet the legs are sore! Donation by Ged Morgan 14/08/06  

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Donation by simon bagge 14/08/06  

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Great cause - Hope it was a successful day! Donation by Richard Gough - HP 08/08/06  

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Vern - Good luck a subject that I believe in for similar reasons to yourself Donation by Barney Brown 07/08/06  

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Fair play - you are all Legends. Donation by gooner4life AWIMB 07/08/06  

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Good Luck! Donation by Dan Davies 05/08/06  

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Good luck tomorrow... Donation by swicks 04/08/06  

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Good luck to you all from us at PhotoArt GB! Donation by PhotoArt GB Ltd 04/08/06  

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I'll be thinking of you all as I prop up the bar! Good Luck! Donation by Gary Jeffrey 04/08/06  

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Good Luck ! Donation by Noel Fordham 03/08/06  

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Best of Luck to all of you! Donation by Barcap NYC 03/08/06  

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to buzz lightyear - you're stark raving mad!!! good luck! Donation by grannie christophor 03/08/06  

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Good Luck Donation by Carole & Pete Jeffrey 03/08/06  

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GO LD!!!!! Love you man! Donation by Gary & Karen 03/08/06  

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Donation by Lee Pollard 03/08/06  

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A great cause - all the best on the day - dont scare the ducks...! Donation by Tony 03/08/06  

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Good luck everyone, you'll be brilliant! Will be cheering you on in spirit. x Donation by Kate Fordham 03/08/06  

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Good luck Vern,we know you can do it. Donation by Ian & Dorothy 03/08/06  

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Donation by Alison Davies 03/08/06  

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Wishing you lots of luck - you must be mad! Donation by Louise Bromley & boys!! 03/08/06  

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Good luck Vernon and the rest of your team Donation by Louise Smith 03/08/06  

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All best wishes Donation by Laura & Phil 03/08/06  

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Good Luck! Donation by Matthew and Emma 02/08/06  

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Donation by splinter 02/08/06  

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Good luck - Not sure I can drive as far as you guys are attempting! Donation by Paul Riz 02/08/06  

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Vernon: Werthers await you at end. Good luck to all in the team Donation by Roger aka Grandad 02/08/06  

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What a fantastic thing to do... good luck to everyone involved!! Donation by Ruth Anslow 02/08/06  

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Good luck for the race. This is a fantastic cause ! Donation by Karen & Andrew 02/08/06  

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what a fab cause vern Donation by Ken Gillingham 02/08/06  

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