I married for life . Meant every word of my vows , and literally over the last 10 yrs ..I lived them, in sickness and health , richer or poorer .......
He had a heart attack , bypass surgery , after became depressed , became an alcoholic, developed sleep apnea and diabeties .
5 months ago he woke up , said he didn't love me and walked out on me and my 3 kids .I do believe in a mid life crisis.
He has left me with ALL those years of money troubles , house in disrepair ..I had no boiler till 3 weeks ago !
I need to pay off some debts ,improve my credit file, to free up a mortgage move , to lower my monthly outgoings , maybe just maybe i could keep my head above water .
This is a last resort , if this fails I have to move to my mum's with my youngest, send my middle son to my sister and my eldest to the ex .mg kids have suffered enough , the older 2 hate alcohol seeing drunks etc, they are scared as am I.
I need a little help to help myself long term .
Thank you for reading love amr xx