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Weʼve raised £2,185 to help us become parents with IVF and donor eggs, due to female infertility caused by cancer treatment.
- Funded on Sunday, 4th October 2020
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My husband and I would love to become parents, but due to cancer treatment I am infertile and need to use donor eggs and IVF to make this happen. As we do not have the funds for this, we are asking for help by crowdfunding. Please help us make our dream come true!
We realise the COVID-19 pandemic has affected most of us financially and any help would be very much appreciated. The pandemic has also prevented a lot of women and couples from becoming parents. We wanted to be parents this year but now we have to wait another year and the chances of success dwindle the longer the wait.
This is our story....
Since the age of 17 I have suffered from a bone marrow failure called Aplastic Anaemia and after several years of failed treatments I had chemotherapy for a bone marrow transplant, which also failed. At the age of 29, after the failed transplant, I met Kieran and was married at 31. At that time my bone marrow failure had turned cancerous, so a more aggressive chemotherapy and a stem cell transplant was required. Before the transplant I had fertility preservation treatment where 13 of my eggs were collected and fertilised using Kieran's sperm. They were frozen and I underwent the more aggressive chemotherapy and stem cell transplant from my amazing sister. This finally worked and after 15years of uncertainty, I was in remission. I am now over 4years cancer free, doing well and more than ready to start our family.
(Me having my sisters stem cells transfused)
Due to the stronger chemotherapy, I am now infertile and in Feb 2020 we started the IVF process to become parents with our frozen embryos. After being thawed, only 2 were good enough to implant and unfortunately the remaining embryos failed to grow and died. After 2 weeks hoping and praying we were told I wasn't pregnant. We were devastated.
(Our 2 embryos at implantation)
I have always wanted to be a mother and feel I deserve my dream after waiting for so long to get healthy. We have no other option but to go with donor eggs, as any eggs I may produce with drug stimulation, would not be viable due to previous chemotherapies. IVF isn't cheap and using a donor costs even more. Any donations raised will go directly to fund treatments, medications, supplements and additional therapies so we can hopefully become a family.
Please help us reach our target and realise our dreams of becoming parents by donating. We would be eternally grateful. Thank you so much. Natalie and Kieran xx
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- 4 years ago
Natalie and Kieran Hatley
4 years agoThank you to the anonymous donor who topped us up to £2000 today!! Wow. Keep sharing everyone. Love to all xxx
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- 4 years ago
Natalie and Kieran Hatley
4 years agoSO HAPPY. We reached or £1k target by 1st June. Let's keep it going! Please share our story so we can reach more people. Lots of love and stay safe xxx
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- 4 years ago
Natalie and Kieran Hatley
4 years ago2 weeks in and thank you all so much for the donations both via just giving and privately. We have been researching IVF specialist acupuncturists this week and as if by magic, there is one 5mins from our house in Southfields! Prices are £70 for the first session and consultation and then £60 per session. Your donations will help fund this very beneficial complimentary therapy. Let's see if we can reach our target. Stay safe everyone. Xxx
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47
Fiona and Kelly
Jul 1, 2020
£50.00
Marie
Jun 30, 2020
Really hope this works out for you both x
Anonymous
Jun 29, 2020
Hayley joyce
Jun 27, 2020
£45.00
Cassiana
Jun 15, 2020
Sending lots of love.
Anonymous
Jun 15, 2020
£25.00
Anonymous
Jun 15, 2020
All the best. X
£10.00
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Natalie and Kieran Hatley
Natalie is 36 and Kieran is 30. Natalie was made redundant from her office job due to downsizing and Kieran is a maintenance gardener. We met at work in Homebase in Oct 2012. First date in Jan 2013 and married in July 2015. We haven't been very lucky and would like your help.