Richard James Whitecross

28 July 1945 - 6 November 2009

 

Richard was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer's disease in 2003.

He donated his brain and spine to University College London (Queen Square Brain Bank) for dementia research.

Cristina, Mathew, and Thomas would like to thank their friends and family for their love and support.

Donations can be made here in Richard's memory. Thank you for your generosity.

 

The Clive Project

The Clive Project is an Oxford-based charity for young people with Alzheimer's.

Richard contacted them for help when he was first diagnosed.

Over a long period of time, when he could no longer be left alone, they provided him with excellent one-to-one care.

They took him for walks and outings, and kept him company, which was beneficial to both him and his family.

Among other things, the charity are currently fundraising to build a care home in Oxford for young dementia sufferers.

 

We have also set up two other pages in Richard's name, for those who would prefer to donate elsewhere:

 

Amnesty International

www.justgiving.com/richardwhitecrossamnestyinternational

 

Asylum Welcome

www.justgiving.com/richardwhitecrossasylumwelcome

 

The Guardian Newspaper

Other Lives Obituary

7 December 2009

Richard Whitecross, who has died of Alzheimer’s disease aged 64, had an incredibly varied and full life – as a publisher, campaigner, translator and devoted family man – characterised by his generous, gentle spirit, quiet courage and offbeat sense of humour. He had an innate ability to touch the lives of people he met.

As a post-war baby, far younger than his brothers Mike and David, Richard spent much of his childhood alone; this solitary upbringing fuelled his love of books, and led to his reading English at .  His adventurous spirit exhibited itself early on, when after university he travelled to to visit David, and embarked on various escapades – climbing Kilimanjaro, hitchhiking through the , and visiting nomadic tribes with a photographer – before being mugged in a shantytown, giving him a distinctive machete scar on his cheek.

Always in search of fresh experiences, Richard began a new life as a publisher in , representing various publishing houses, including Oxford University Press. Soon after his arrival, he met a lecturer, Cristina, and fell in love. They were married six months later.

The political situation in Latin America was deteriorating, and after the 1973 military coup in , Richard and Cristina became politically active, attending rallies and hiding refugees in their apartment, at great personal risk. Like thousands of others in ’s “dirty war”, the couple were arrested by the secret police and “disappeared”. Lucky to survive, they were imprisoned for six months inside the notorious Villa Devoto detention centre, but thanks to a concerted campaign by friends, family, Amnesty International, Reuters, The Buenos Aires Herald, and the ASTMS trade union, which Richard belonged to, they were eventually released and exiled.

Twelve years ago, Richard first started exhibiting signs of forgetfulness, causing problems at work. Cristina began to suspect it might be Alzheimer’s, but it took several years for the diagnosis to be confirmed. From someone who had been so patient, thoughtful and kind, he was transformed by bouts of paranoia, hallucinations and anger. His deterioration was rapid and heartbreaking. Mercifully, once this initial stage had passed, he returned to his normal temperament, and regained his sense of humour and good nature, even as his memory waned. He still responded to jazz and to the Marx Brothers films he had always enjoyed, and remained a loving father and husband to the end.

 

He is survived by Cristina, Mat, Tom, and his beloved golden retriever Tommy.