In August 2023, I was matched with Inez through the Link Age Southwark befriending programme. I had recently moved to London from the San Francisco Bay Area and wanted to build meaningful connections in my new community here. I didn’t realise then just how special this match would become for the next few years.

Every two weeks, I visited Inez and we would spend time together sharing stories about our families, favourite foods and travels, or we would watch whatever show happened to be on at the time. She spoke about growing up in Jamaica and then moving to London, reflecting on her experiences and hardships with remarkable strength and resilience.

In addition to her stories, Inez shared bits of wisdom and life advice on adjusting to new places which eventually helped me settle more into my life in London.

In early December 2025, Inez passed away peacefully at her home, just one week after we had shared a nice meal together in her living room. I was honoured when her family asked me if I would speak at her funeral, it was a beautiful ceremony and I’m grateful that I could be there to celebrate her life with all her loved ones.

Inez made me feel more at home in London and I will always remember her smile, kindness and love that she shared with me.

On 12th April, I will be running the London Landmarks Half Marathon in memory of Inez and to support in raising funds for Link Age Southwark. Although I will miss Inez deeply, I am beyond grateful to have had this opportunity to befriend her and hope to support others in creating more meaningful connections like ours.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. Any contribution that you can give is much appreciated and will go directly to supporting programmes at Link Age Southwark. I've also shared my story with Inez here: https://www.linkagesouthwark.org/Blog/abbey-inez