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London Friend Big 200 Appeal

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on 28 January 2011

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London Friend is the UK’s oldest LGBTQ+ charity, providing mental health and wellbeing support since 1972. We offer help and advice to all LGBTQ+ people, providing one-to-one counselling, social support groups; plus, a specialist service Antidote that offers support around drugs and alcohol use.

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<p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend, the UK&rsquo;s oldest LGBT health and well-being charity, needs your help to raise &pound;200,000 to save our building from being sold at auction by our landlord.</span></p> <p class="MsoBlockText" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">The charity has been given just SIX MONTHS in which to raise the money to buy the premises from Islington Council, or potentially face eviction or substantial rent hikes. <span style="color: black;">The news comes as London Friend is preparing to take over the running of Antidote, the LGBT drugs and alcohol service which is closing due to government funding cuts.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend was given just three weeks notice in the run up to Christmas that our building was being put up for auction. After a lobbying campaign against this decision, supported by local MPs and Lord Smith of Finsbury, the Council agreed to remove the building from the auction.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoBodyText" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">London</span></strong><strong><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB"> Friend has now been given SIX MONTHS in which to raise the money to buy the building from the Council.</span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend has been at the forefront of gay and transgender activism and service provision since the early 1970&rsquo;s - celebrating our 40<sup>th</sup> birthday this year. </span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend is a vibrant and progressive Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender health and well-being charity with a wide portfolio of well established services and a rapidly developing range of new initiatives aimed at meeting the needs of the LGB&amp;T community.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">Our services are developed to improve the health and mental well-being of LGB&amp;T people and we work to be there when people need them most. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">The charity offers a wide range of health and social services to help tackle the issues that have a huge impact on the lives of our community, and/or where support offered by mainstream services does not sufficiently meet the needs of LGBT people. </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">As well as running Central London&rsquo;s only LGBT community centre, our other services include:</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">one-to-one counselling</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">couples counselling</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">group therapy</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">gender specific &lsquo;coming out&rsquo; support groups</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a support service for LGBT carers and carers of LGBT people</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a helpline and advice service operating 365 days per year</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a hate crime reporting service</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a telephone befriending service</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&amp; a number of social groups where LGBT people can socialise in a safe environment.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend is also a member of the National LGB&amp;T Partnership. The Partnership is a consortium of 12 LGB&amp;T health organisations that have come together with a joint vision of improving the health of LGB&amp;T people nationally, and campaign for improvements in health services for LGB&amp;T people.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">London Friend is in the process of merging with Antidote, the UK&rsquo;s only LGBT-specific drug and alcohol support service. Antidote works with LGB&amp;T people from across London and the South East who have support needs relating to their drug and alcohol usage. Antidote exists because of the proven fact that LGB&amp;T people receive a lower level of support from generic drug and alcohol support services than their heterosexual people accessing the same services.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">Antidotes&rsquo; current services include:</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">one-to-one key working to address their immediate drug and alcohol support needs</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">referral to detox clinics and prescribing centres</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">one-to-one counselling to tackle the underlying issues that have resulted in clients presenting with drug and alcohol problems</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a weekly drop-in for LGBT people to discuss their drug and alcohol issues</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">two weekly drop-ins based within sexual health centres</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a steroid user support service</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt 54pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 54.0pt;"><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">-<span style="font: 7pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;" lang="EN-GB">a telephone advice helpline<strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"></strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">To ensure we can continue offering all of these services for the next 40 years</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">WE NEED YOUR HELP</span></strong><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB">The money we raise will go towards buying the building from the Council and carrying out renovations that are needed ready for when we take over the Antidote service. </span></p> <p style="text-align: center; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 13pt;" lang="EN-GB">&nbsp;</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center; line-height: 140%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="line-height: 140%; font-family: Arial; color: #1c1c1c; font-size: 11pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;" lang="EN-GB">Please DIG DEEP and&nbsp;give all you can, and please spread the word!</span></strong><span style="line-height: 140%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; color: #1c1c1c; font-size: 11pt;" lang="EN-GB"></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center; line-height: 140%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; color: #1c1c1c;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center; line-height: 140%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: #1c1c1c; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-size: small;">&nbsp;</span></span></span></strong></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center; line-height: 140%; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: #1c1c1c; mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;" lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-size: small;">THANK YOU</span></span></span></strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; color: #1c1c1c;" lang="EN-GB"></span></span></p> <p>&nbsp;</p>

Donation summary

Total
£20,749.00
+ £1,060.10 Gift Aid
Online
£4,469.00
Offline
£16,280.00

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