Marienna Pope-Weidemann

I am Stepping Out in Solidarity for Gaia & for all Survivors

Fundraising for Rape Crisis England & Wales
£780
raised of £500 target
by 35 supporters
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Event: Step Out in Solidarity, from 7 February 2022 to 8 March 2022
In memory of Gaia Pope
Step Out in Solidarity every day for 30 days to raise vital funds for Rape Crisis England & Wales. You can move any way that works for you each day and choose your total distance to complete. The event will run from 7th February 2022 - 8th March 2022

Story

I am pledging to #StepOutInSolidarity by walking, cycling and running a total of 100km between 7 February and International Women's Day on 8 March. There are more than 10,000 people currently on Rape Crisis waiting lists and I will be covering 0.1km for each and every one of them. 

I am doing this as part of #JusticeForGaia my cousin who I loved very much and who died in November 2017 when she was just 19 years old. Gaia was failed by the system and I believe she would still be alive today if she had been given access to the kind of support a Rape Crisis provides and wants to make available to everyone who needs it. 

20% of women have experienced some type of sexual assault since the age of 16 so we need huge investment in education & support to make sure every survivor is respected, protected and heard. By providing lifesaving support services & fighting for systemic change, Rape Crisis is leading that movement. They and I need your support to make it happen. 

By sponsoring me you will help keep this movement moving and help Rape Crisis continue their vital work:

- Directly supporting victims and survivors and providing information

- Promoting the needs and rights of women and girls who have experienced sexual abuse, rape and all forms of sexual violence

- Raising awareness of sexual violence and abuse in the wider community and with government.

- Driving excellence within Rape Crisis Centres via National Service Standards

Find out more about Rape Crisis here:

https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/about-sexual-violence/statistics-sexual-violence/


GAIA'S STORY

Gaia went missing on 7 November 2017 when she was 19 years old. Eleven days later, her body was found. The coroner found she’d died of hypothermia. We call it a death by indifference.

Gaia was bright, brave, kind, creative and fiercely loyal to those she loved. She loved nature and science and she was a gifted artist. She was the sort of child who, if someone was being bullied in the playground, she’d be right over there. She was a confident person, passionate about equality and fairness and she believed in her own ability to make a difference; in everyone’s ability to make a difference, really. The lifechanging challenges she faced later as a young woman living with epilepsy and as a survivor of sexual violence inspired her to pursue a career in health and social care. She wanted to dedicate her life to others and help transform a healthcare system she felt forgotten and neglected by.

We want justice for her death and for all survivors.

Gaia developed severe post-traumatic stress and worsening epilepsy after Dorset Police chose to take no further action over her report, that she had been raped by a known sex offender who threatened to kill her family if she spoke up. Months later, Hayes was imprisoned for another child sex offense but she lived in fear of his release.

Gaia was in and out of hospital as her mental health declined. She was repeatedly hospitalised and discharged without any long-term support plan in place and was even subjected to further sexual harassment in hospital where she should have been safe. No safeguarding referral was made for her and the whole episode was kept quiet.

On 7 November 2017, the day she disappeared, Gaia had two appointments: one with her GP to ask for mental health support and another with Dorset Police to report a further incident of sexual harassment online. She was in a state of extreme distress and confusion when she went missing.

We reported immediately and called on our local community for help. Gaia’s story made national headlines, hundreds of people joined the search and thousands more took action in an enormous grassroots effort to find her. We searched for eleven days, during which time we lost what little faith we ever had in the police.

We don’t want any more families forced to fight for someone who’s been taken from you and can never be replaced. That’s why we released Gaia’s Guide: a community organising guide to help keep missing people safe; why we continue to campaign; and why we need to know the truth about what happened – and what needs to change to save lives like Gaia’s.B

Because the coroner agrees that there has been “an arguable breach of the obligations under Article 2 of the European Convention on Human Rights” (Gaia’s right to life,) we have won a full inquest with a jury to examine this question, which will begin on 25 April 2022.

Gaia’s family will be represented by a world class human rights legal team led by Doughty Street Chambers’ Caoilfhionn Gallagher QC who acted for the bereaved of the 7/7 London bombings and the Hillsborough Disaster alongside Legal Aid Lawyer of the Year 2018 and co-founder of the Centre for Women’s Justice, Harriet Wistrich from Birnberg Peirce.

The world is a darker place without Gaia but she is still a light in all our lives. We honour her by fighting for her rights and for the better world that she believed in and a Britain where all survivors are respected, protected and heard.

#JusticeForGaia 🌹

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About the campaign

Step Out in Solidarity every day for 30 days to raise vital funds for Rape Crisis England & Wales. You can move any way that works for you each day and choose your total distance to complete. The event will run from 7th February 2022 - 8th March 2022

About the charity

Rape Crisis England & Wales

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Rape Crisis England & Wales is the charity working to end sexual violence and abuse. We are the membership organisation for Rape Crisis Centres who deliver specialist services to those affected by sexual violence in England & Wales. Together we aim to educate, influence and make change.

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