Maria Robertson

Shaving My Hair for MHA!

Fundraising for Change Mental Health
£680
raised of £500 target
Shaving My Hair!, 5 April 2022
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We provide transformational support to people affected by mental illness.

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This is something that started off as passive thoughts on the odd occasion - until today, I just thought to myself “why have I not done this yet”. After all, it is exhausting thinking about the ‘what if’ of it all, there are too many possibilities that I just don’t have the energy to contemplate. So I have decided to rip the band aid off, and cross this off my bucket list.

In support of mental health, and raising awareness, I have decided to shave my hair in an effort to raise money for Support in Mind Scotland. Though please be mindful when reading the next few paragraphs, it may be upsetting.

I have struggled with my mental health for 6 years and counting. Over time, it got progressively worse to the point where I sought therapy and medication due to thoughts and urges I shouldn’t have been having.

When I was 13, I started believing there was something fundamentally wrong with me, I didn’t recognise the person staring back at me in the mirror - almost disconnected. Nothing, not even my own skin, seemed real  

When I was 14, I harmed myself for the first time. It made me feel better, it was something I could control (or I thought I could) when other things became overwhelming.

When I was 15, I wrote my first suicide note. I did not want to be here anymore, and from a very young age I never saw life past 18. Before I turned 18 I imagined myself just disappearing - I didn’t know how it was going to happen, I just knew it would.

When I was 16, I was forced into counselling by a concerned person in my life at the time. I soon abandoned it due to not being ready and overwhelmed with pressure - needless to say that person is not around anymore.

When I was 17, I made my own decision to go to therapy and look for the answer to my question - what is wrong with me? It’s not as simple as just googling aspects of your experience with mental health, everyone’s experience is different - no two are the same. Google will tell you it’s OCD, or BPD, or another, I realised the only way to get the answer I needed was by arranging an appointment and hunting it down myself.

When I was 18, I opened up to friends, family and colleagues about how I was feeling and many conversations were had about support and reassurance. 

Now I am 19. I am still struggling, but I’m still here. Despite having planned my own suicide out on several occasions, I am still fighting. I had thought long and hard about several different methods, but each time I came so close to taking my final breath, something stopped me. I don’t know what it is exactly, but I’m thankful it’s there.

These are not easy things to admit and I did contemplate deleting this and just posting a simple fundraising link with very little about the reason I have made this decision, but the only way to raise true awareness is by admitting to your own journey and talking about the experience.

Shaving your head is usually something that is done in support of MacMillan cancer, to represent the loss of hair through chemotherapy. Instead I am shaving my head for mental health to symbolise a mental as well as physical weight being lifted off my shoulders. While raising money for MacMillan is a great thing to do, mental health is more personal to me.

I will be shaving my head on Saturday 9th April 2022 - though donations are welcomed after this. I will keep this page updated until the end of the month when hopefully I will have reached my target.

The charity I chose to do this for is Support in Mind Scotland. This is due to the amazing stories I have heard from people who look to them for support and advice. Their goal is to ensure that no one has to face their struggle with mental health alone, they help improve the quality of life for everyone affected by it - including family and friends.

SiMS support people of all ages in several ways, they work to find and encourage opportunities in people's lives, provide assistance in building confidence and social skills as well as helping people to reconnect with their family and community.

Further assistance is provided around practical issues such as physical wellness, guidance is given regarding exercise and healthy-eating. No matter the reason a person makes contact with this charity, no matter the support they are looking for, they are treated with patience and respect by all team members.

If you're still here I would like to thank you for reading this far and ask that you consider donating to the cause - even a simple share can contribute to making a difference! 

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Change Mental Health

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Change Mental Health wants to build a future where no one needs to face mental illness alone. We seek to change society by changing attitudes, fighting stigma and influencing government to ensure a better quality of life for those affected by mental illness.

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