Ascension

Tj Lotay is raising money for Brain Tumour Research
In memory of Rashpal Lotay
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Brain Tumour Research is the leading voice of the brain tumour community and focused on finding a cure for all types of brain tumours. We are campaigning to increase the national investment in research to £35 million per year and funding sustainable Centres of Excellence across the UK.

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Brain tumours kill more children and adults under the age of 40 than any other cancer, yet historically just 1% of the national spend on cancer research has been allocated to this devastating disease.

Brain Tumour Research is determined to change this.

They are the only national charity in the UK focused on finding a cure for all types of brain tumours through campaigning to increase the national investment in brain tumour research to £35 million per year, while fundraising to create a network of seven sustainable Brain Tumour Research Centres of Excellence across the UK.

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Tj Lotay started his fundraising group; Ascension in 2021 in honour of his late Mother. His Mother passed to a ten year battle against brain tumour in 2019; regardless of such news received she always remained positive, happy and spread joy and laughter in each day.

Tj’s Mother; Rashpal Lotay was diagnosed with a brain tumour in 2009. The brain tumour took over his Mother’s life, but yet everyday she still smiled and tried to support her four kids the best she could. Until May 2019 she sadly passed away.

The doctors mentioned how the norm of Brain Tumour Research is a life span of three-ish years, but Rashpal Lotay showing her strength pushed over further than that. She fought for ten years and two days and through that she never complained nor did she stop smiling.

“My Mother was my hero, my inspiration, she was the strongest person I had ever known, she had my back when no one else did and she forever supported me. My mother was the one who believed in me hiking and pushed me to conquer amazing mountains, and when she left this world, she took a piece of my heart with her”.

Rashpal Lotay was a free spirit, she always loved the brighter stuff, the environmental landscape, the colours of the world. She never saw grey and kept that with her spirit. Her positive presence was contagious, and she even had random strangers approach her cause of her warming attitude, she was a fun woman to be around and loved her music and dance, she was a good woman who always put herself second and everyone else first.

He shared all his stories, secrets and/or problems with his Mother, she loved hearing his travel stories, and he would tell them all to her; he took photos not for himself but for his Mother so she could see the beauty of the world. Even when she lost her abilities Tj felt that he could still understand her just by looking into her eyes, they would fixate on him and only him, out of anyone in the room and he would know what she was saying or thinking; a magic between a mother and a son;His only despairing thought is that his Mother left when he was still too young, he only wished she had seen his life with him for at least a few more years.

Tj who also suffers from mental illness, found serenity and stillness within the mountains, something his Mother helped drive him towards. He is a hiking leader; thus naming his fundraising group: Ascension, and he is thriving towards trying to raise awareness for the charity whilst using hiking as his premise.

Tj also wants to make it clear that he also is here for anyone who just wants to talk or let out their heart, especially as Tj’s mental health got worse after his Mothers Passing and he prays no one experiences the mental pain he did.

For anyone going through a Brain Tumour, or any families or friends of a loved one who is, know that me and the mountains are always open, I don’t want anyone to feel alone, overwhelmed or hopeless. It’s easy to neglect ourselves in time of crisis and create a shadow of mental depression, but I say to all those diagnosed, or families of those, know that I am always here”.

Tj has also added Mental Health Awareness to Ascension, as it is a very personal problem in his life. Tj openly discuss how he suffers from mental health and is on medication for it, he has battled with anxiety, social-anxiety, depression, dysania, panic attacks and at times suicide. With first hand experience, he is working hard to support anyone who suffers and battles with any form of mental health problems. Tj is a massive supporter of Mental Health Awareness.

Previous Fundraisers Events.

Angels Landing, Utah Hike. Raised £1,618. (July 2019; postponed to 2022)

Scafell Pike, Walk of Hope. Raised £2,735. (September 2021)

Amazon Goes Pink. Raised Awareness. (October 2021)

Mental Health Hotlines.

If you're feeling like you want to die, it's important to tell someone.

Help and support is available right now if you need it. You do not have to struggle with difficult feelings alone. Phone a helpline: you can also call these helplines for advice if you’re worried about someone else.

Samaritans; Call 116 123.& Email; jo@samaritans.org

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALL); Call 0800 58 58 58

National Suicide Prevention Helpline; 0800 689 5652

Papyrus ;Call 0800 068 41 41.Text; 07860 039967.Email pat@papyrus-uk.org

Childline;(for children under 16) Call 0800 1111.

SOS Silence of Suicide; Call 0300 1020 505. Email; support@sossilenceofauicide.org

Personal Email Support.

If anyone is looking for someone to talk to, please email me on tjlotay1993@hotmail.co.uk, and we will go from there;

Never suffer alone.

Learn more about Brain Tumour Research at

https://braintumourresearch.org/?srsltid=AfmBOorg-sy_sz2_d0rS43xFmzmjsIv4nzm2CIAUzz1aarAU-i0HBIW8

Donation summary

Total
£4,645.98
+ £200.50 Gift Aid
Online
£2,027.72
Offline
£2,618.26

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