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My fundraiser for Nelson's Journey

Rachael Mayes is raising money for Nelson's Journey
In memory of Ashley Mayes

Sky dive · 7 November 2026

The mission of Nelson’s Journey is to increase the self-esteem, self-belief and wellbeing of bereaved children in Norfolk, by enabling families and wider society to talk openly about death and bereavement, and for children to express and understand emotions.

Story

This October would have been Ash’s 50th birthday, and for a long time I wasn’t quite sure how I wanted to mark such a special milestone.

I know Ash would have wanted to celebrate with the people he loved — probably with a big family and friends party, plenty of laughter, dancing - knee slides 🦵 and a few drinks!

But after a lot of thought, I decided I wanted to do something a little different… so I’m going to throw myself out of a plane!

Yes, I’m doing a parachute jump — something that is VERY far outside my comfort zone, but something that feels like a fitting way to mark Ash’s 50th and do something meaningful at the same time.

I’ll be raising money for Nelson’s Journey, a charity that was there for our boys when they needed support following the loss of their dad. The help they gave them meant so much to us, and it feels really special to be able to give something back.

So, in memory of my Ash, for his 50th birthday, and for a charity that holds a very special place in our hearts — I’m taking a deep breath, jumping out of a plane and hoping I remember to pull the parachute! 😂

Please sponsor me, all donations would mean so much to me and the boys.

And Happy Birthday Ash! Your 50th, I wish you were here to celebrate it with us all (then I wouldn’t be jumping out of a plane !)

Always loved so much and always remembered ♥️.

Please find below some details regarding how Nelson’s Journey helps…

Nelson‘s Journey supports children and young people in Norfolk who’ve experienced the death of a significant person. Since 1997, Nelson’s Journey has helped thousands of bereaved children and young people in the county.

It is only thanks to the tremendous support of fundraisers that our work is possible.

“Having someone there for us during our grieving process was seamless. The understanding and

guidance displayed during this time far exceeded my expectations.” – feedback from parent

Donation summary

Total
£740.00
+ £163.75 Gift Aid
Online
£740.00
Offline
£0.00

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