In celebration of Jessie turning 10 and to honour her short but meaningful life, I’m committing to 10 acts across this year. These acts are also a way to mark turning 40 — a reminder to myself of the strength I carry: mentally, physically and emotionally.

I would also like to use this year to raise funds for Held in our Hearts. Sadly, parents and families continue to experience baby loss every single day. Since losing Jessie, they have supported me in way I feel like I will never be able to repay. Baby loss changes everything. The grief doesn’t simply end — it echoes through your mental health, your relationships and your sense of self. Held In Our Hearts helped me find my voice again, honour Jessie’s memory, and understand that I was never alone. No parent should have to carry this grief by themselves.