"i let you win" is a poetry book and an ongoing artistic project about care, vulnerability, memory and the ways we live with one another.

Beginning with the question "How are you these days?", "i let you win" is a year-long collection of tender, solitary and collective moments exploring care, vulnerability, memory and the ways we live with one another. Through sparse language, repetition and blankness, the book considers the small negotiations of everyday relationships: when we hold on, when we yield, and what it means to make space for another.

For its launch, the publication extends beyond the page into a site-responsive installation, placing the intimacy of the book within the Museum of the Home; a space where private lives, domestic histories and personal memories are collected and encountered.

A limited number of copies of "i let you win" will be available to purchase for £100, with all proceeds donated to Children & War UK. Extending the project’s gesture of care beyond the space of the book, the donation supports the organisation’s work with children affected by war and other traumatic events, creating space for them to process their experiences and begin rebuilding a sense of safety and connection.

I hope this fundraiser can quietly extend the work beyond the pages of the book, from one person to another.

If you would like to support it, any contribution is deeply appreciated.

Thank you for being here, now.

I let you win

Site-Responsive Installation & Book Launch

Trần Quang Đại

Curated by Audrey Chan and Nicole Yip.

2–4pm, 6 October 2026

Museum of the Home

136 Kingsland Rd, London E2 8EA

United Kingdom

Special thanks to lov.foundation

& studiodiedrich

& you.