Your friends are fundraising. Don't miss out, opt in.

Fundraiser complete

This page is now closed, but you can still donate to the cause directly

100 miles for the Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM)

Jay Mistry is raising money for CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably)
Donations cannot currently be made to this page

JAY & MILO: 100 MILES · 26 March 2023

We are the Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) and we're leading a movement against suicide, the single biggest killer of men under the age of 45 in the UK.

Story

Hello hello.

I planned on walking 100 miles around the Isle of Man this spring (26 March-4 April) for a personal challenge. Then when I took myself on a little walk around London town last week, I saw this on a sticker posted on a lampost:

1 Male Dies By Suicide Every Minute

I easily could have missed it. But I didn't. And I've been thinking about that statistic since. It's a global statistic. And it's fucking tragic.

Narrowing it down to the UK, nearly 12 men lose their lives to suicide every day. Men die by suicide at a rate three times more often than women.

While in the United States, the suicide rate among males is four times higher than among females. Male deaths represent 79% of suicides, amounting to roughly 105 men who die by suicide every day.

Go here for more: headsupguys.org/suicide-stats-men/

Please donate, and let's help people get the support they need to escape their pain before it's too late.

In the video above, I talk about my experience with suicide. My realisation was that suicide is never the answer. But I understand its appeal... watch if you'd like a bit of insight.

I also wrote this in December 2020. It's a bit more on my battle with Crohn's as a teenager: https://gutsandsoul.blog/2021/03/13/crohns-story-part-1/

If you want to follow how we get on... Instagram and YouTube are the best places :)

Donation summary

Total
£1,051.28
+ £199.50 Gift Aid
Online
£1,043.28
Offline
£8.00

Charities pay a small fee for our service. Learn more about fees