Sarah -

Archie, whose love of nature was big and irreversible, is inspiring his beautiful sister Violet and I to walk in his honour and raise money for the Good Grief Project.

We did a hike recently in the Seychelles jungle where Archie’s grandma is from, I found that tough and it’s a fraction of the distance we will do in Yorkshire, yikes !

I’m so glad this hike is in beautiful Yorkshire as my family has roots there (my Yorkshire Dad David died a year before Archie )- it’s time to channel our Yorkshire grit 💪

Beautiful Archie was as fit as a flea, he will indeed be cheering us on along with David … I have a good feeling about this challenge and know I will be in the sweetest company of these dear parents and our most beloved children. .

The Good Grief Project is a wonderful charity.

Literally wonderful. I’ve just done my second retreat and it was deeply nourishing in so many ways. Your contribution however small will be so very appreciated and a real gift .

Love Sarah

Violet -

Archie was a true lover of nature and of adventure. He was like a little mountain goat from the youngest age, so it feels very appropriate to be doing a walking challenge in his honour. I'm counting on his spirit walking alongside me and offering encouragement because goodness knows I'm not a fraction as fit as he was.

Archie's death left my family and I in a state of profound shock and grief. My grief felt very alienating at times, so I sought out support from those who’d suffered similar loses, just wanting to find people who got it, who understood. I was introduced to the work of The Good Grief charity, firstly reading Jane and Jimmy’s incredible book, and later attending an Active Grief Weekend.

In the container of this retreat- spent with others who’d lost children or siblings- my family and I were able to share our most raw and vulnerable feelings and thoughts. We got to connect with other bereaved families and get to know their children/siblings through them. We were given the support and SPACE to engage creatively with grief through writing, photography and movement.

To put it simply, it was healing. I felt more connected to my brother, more alive to the fact that our relationship is ongoing, despite his physical absence. My grief softened and felt more manageable- the pressure cooker of emotions got a much needed release. As a family we came away closer. I could go on, but suffice to say I am a huge believer in this charity and what they do.

All funds we raise will go to helping less advantaged bereaved families attend these Active Grief Weekend retreats. Your generosity will have a profound impact and is so deeply appreciated.

Warmly,

Violet xxx