I was 11 years old when I was sexually harassed for the first time. On the train up to london with my mother, I was harassed by a group of men who even followed us when we moved carriages. Unfortunately that was not the last time I was harassed or touched without my consent.

When I was 18 I was introduced to Action Breaks Silence, a charity founded by Debi Steven to tackle violence against women and girls.

About ABS

Action Breaks Silence is a women led charity which engages, educates and empowers communities to end violence against women and girls (“VAWG”).

This strategic plan will direct our work over the next three years (April 2024 – March 2027).

Our Vision

Our vision is to create a world free from violence against women and girls.

Our Purpose

To end violence against women and girls by educating, engaging and empowering communities.

We tackle sexism and misogyny and the other root causes of violence against women and girls.

We work within communities that face a multitude of challenges to teach empowerment through connection to core values, understanding boundaries and recognising societal pressure as well as promoting healthy relationships, positive masculinity and inner strength.

We provide structured training for young people and survivors to provide them with the skills and knowledge to deliver our programmes, and to mentor younger students. This equips the trainees with both technical and interpersonal skills and practical experience to build confidence, resilience and improved employability.

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In light of completing my first ever half-marathon, I run for all the women who've been harassed, assaulted and subject to gender-based violence. I run for Laken Riley, who was brutally murdered by a man while out on a run on the University of Georgia's campus. I run for all the little girls who've been subject to predatory attention. For any woman who has held her keys between her hands. For any woman who has been touched without firm consent. For the past versions of myself that were hurt.

I would like to raise at least £1000 for this incredible charity, that gave me the skills and tools I need to feel a little less afraid as a woman. Thank you for reading this story, and for donating. If you can't donate please do check out Action Breaks Silence and spread the word about their incredible mission.

Tabi x