Just to let you know that passed away very peacefully on at and her funeral was held on Friday 16th April 2010 at All Saints Church, Friern Barnet, N20.

For those that attended the funeral, they will know what a wonderful send off that she had. For those that were unable to attend, we will be looking to have a small ceremony to remember her by later this year.

In her passing, there was no pain, no distress, three of her very close family saw her through her last moments with love to the other side; it could not have been more beautiful or peaceful.

The great, great thing is that she made it to her daughter, 's 18th birthday just over two weeks before, and given that we thought we were losing her in September, that for all of us, including , has been a great source of joy and comfort.

At ' request, there were no flowers for the funeral, but charitable donations welcome as follows:-to go to the All Saint's Church charity, with which was so actively involved.

The initial proceeds are to provide a flat screen TV for the chemotherapy lounge.  After the cost of this has been taken into account, additional donations will look to be dedicated to an important church need in Paris' name.

Donating through JustGiving is simple, fast and totally secure. Your details are safe with JustGiving – they’ll never sell them on or send unwanted emails. Once you donate, they’ll send your money directly to the charity and make sure Gift Aid is reclaimed on every eligible donation by a taxpayer. So it’s the most efficient way to donate - we raise more, whilst saving time and cutting costs for the charity.

Alternatively, cheques (made payable to All Saints' Friern Barnet ) can be sent to:

All Saints’ Church,

,

N20 9EZ.

Thanks for all your thoughts and support, appreciated more than you can imagine.

With love,

 

Mel. mel@melloades.co.uk