My story

On 20 July 2010 our beautiful son Jacob died suddenly from an anaphylactic reaction, eight days short of his 14 birthday.

Jacob struggled with asthma and allergies from an early age and was hospitalised several times. Despite this, he lived a full and energetic life. He loved football, swimming, music and, most of all, freerunning. He would jump from great heights, turn summersaults in the air and vault all obstacles in his path. He bore his illnesses cheerfully, refusing to let them interfere with what he wanted to do. His sunny disposition earned him the nickname ‘Smileyface’.

We will perhaps never know what Jacob ate the day he died. The last thing he said when I asked him was, “I’ll tell you later.” Whatever it was caused his tongue and throat to swell, stopping him from breathing. His usual medication and the emergency epipen couldn’t save him, nor could the ambulance crew or the paediatric team at Kingston Hospital despite heroic efforts.

We’ve spent 14 years with the fear that Jacob could die from his allergies and struggled desperately to protect him without denying him the freedom he so fiercely craved. In the end, it wasn’t enough.

Thousands of people suffer from asthma and allergies. For many, the conditions are life threatening. Instead of flowers for Jacob’s funeral, we are asking for donations to two charities working to raise awareness of these conditions and conduct research into helping those affected. Please give generously.

As well as the Anaphylaxis Campaign we are also supporting AAIR. Please see:

http://www.justgiving.com/JacobZeunerGriffiths-AAIR

My charity

The Anaphylaxis Campaign

The Anaphylaxis Campaign

Charity Registration No. 1085527

Anaphylaxis Campaign is the only UK wide charity to exclusively meet the needs of the growing numbers of people at risk from severe allergic reactions (anaphylaxis) by providing information and support relating to foods and other triggers such as latex, drugs and insect stings.

Donations 103

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The Meadlands Singers raised this money on their sponsored singing walk on 20th. June 2012. Jacob will always be alive in our memories.

Donation by Meadlands Singers on 22/07/12

£310.00

Donation by Yaser El-Borgi on 06/12/11

£50.00

+ £12.50 Gift Aid

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Donation by Caroline Flynn on 21/07/11

£25.00

Donation by Jenny Metherell on 17/07/11

£150.00

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I am really sorry for your loss. I am sorry I never got to meet Jacob, what an amazing boy.

Donation by Tamra Brown on 06/07/11

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We were so sorry to hear about Jacob. Simon & Debbie

Donation by Simon Emm on 12/06/11

£30.00

+ £7.50 Gift Aid

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Dear Simon and Dagmar, there are no words to describe the sadness.. Our thoughts are with you and your beautiful kids. Laura and Max

Donation by Massimo Guido on 27/04/11

£50.00

+ £12.50 Gift Aid

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For Jacob....

Donation by Craig Fenton on 06/12/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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I am making this donation on behalf of my son Joshua Denny who attended the same school and free running club as Jacob. Our thoughts are with you.

Donation by Eileen Denny on 24/11/10

£10.00

+ £2.82 Gift Aid

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Dear Dagmar & Simon, I was so sorry to hear about Jacob. My thoughts are with you and your family. Anna xx

Donation by Anna Bryden on 28/10/10

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We will always remember him with his cheeky smile and naughty twinkle to his eye! With much love from Dominique, Graham and Tierney xxx

Donation by Dominique Andrews on 11/10/10

£50.00

+ £14.10 Gift Aid

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Donation received from Jacob's first childminder Uzma

Donation by Simon Griffiths on 09/10/10

£40.00

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I am so sorry for your loss. I have some fond memories of Jacob from choir. So full of fun and character. I miss him. Best wishes, Rosalind xxx

Donation by Rosalind Hardy on 15/09/10

£20.00

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It was an honour to teach such a bundle of fun! Whenever I think of him I remember his smile and I smile too. Love Noreen Ball

Donation by Marion Ball on 12/09/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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You are all still in our thoughts and prayers, I'm afraid the second email got buried whilst I was on leave! love Lu, Danny and Emma xx

Donation by Louise Webb on 06/09/10

£30.00

+ £8.46 Gift Aid

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For Jacob....

Donation by Chris Freeman on 02/09/10

£10.00

+ £2.82 Gift Aid

Very fond memories of Jacob in Ham Library. Thinking of you all.

Donation by Lesley Gibbons on 01/09/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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Dagmar, I was so sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you. Chris

Donation by Chris Corfield on 30/08/10

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Donation by Vicki Harvey-Piper on 30/08/10

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Donation by Anonymous on 25/08/10

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You are all in our thoughts. With love, Peter, Ann, Emily and Tom

Donation by Peter Hall on 22/08/10

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With love, and thoughts for Jacob and his special family

Donation by Caroline Flynn on 19/08/10

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For a truly special & memorable student.

Donation by Anna & Rob Hurley on 18/08/10

£20.00

+ £5.64 Gift Aid

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Dear Simon,Dagmar, Conrad, Johann and Esther.Thinking of you at this painful time. Love , Eileen and Mike

Donation by Michael Hall on 14/08/10

£30.00

+ £8.46 Gift Aid

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Dear Simon, Damar, Conrad, Johann and Esther. An auful and painful time for all of you. You are all regularly in our thoughts. Love Kerry and Rose

Donation by Kerry and Rose on 12/08/10

£40.00

+ £11.28 Gift Aid

Donation summary

  • * Online donations$5,949.74
  • Offline donations$250.15
  • Text donations$0.00
  • Total raised$6,199.89
  • Gift Aid$1,277.08

* Charities pay a small fee for our service. Find out how much it is and what we do for it.