Lara Naylor

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Fundraising for Remember Rufus
£810
raised of £500 target
by 51 supporters
Event: London Landmarks Half Marathon 2024, on 7 April 2024
Participants: Annie, Ceri
Remember Rufus

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RCN 1192076
We raise funds to purchase cuddle cots to support bereaved parents and families.

Story

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At the grand old age of 54, this is going to be quite a
challenge for me - I got ‘talked into it’ by my friend Annie who I work with on the Neonatal Unit at UHCW.  Remember Rufus (RCN 1192076) is a charity set up by Annie’s close friends, Ceri and Billy in memory of their son Rufus, who was born sleeping on 11 October 2020 💙.  So far, Remember Rufus have donated 30 Cuddle Cots across England and Wales and is also supporting the development of a much-needed Bereavement Suite at UHCW.  So, in truth, I didn’t take much persuading as these are fantastic causes very close to my heart.

The CuddleCot has been internationally recognised across the world as significantly helping parents who suffer the loss of a baby.  1 in 4 pregnancies end in loss and on average, 15 babies are stillborn or die within 4 weeks of birth every single day in the UK.  Dealing with the death of a baby is an incredibly difficult event for parents and without access to a cuddle cot, typically a baby can only stay with their parents for approximately 12 hours, which is heartbreaking.  So, it is absolutely vital all hospitals have access to this equipment to give families the time they need to say goodbye to their precious children, either at hospital or at home.

In terms of the challenge of running a half marathon.  I started training in the summer having never run more than 3 miles!  I have been trying to increase my mileage through the winter (alongside playing hockey) and am now up to 8 miles but it’s REALLY starting to hurt so I figured that setting this up would give me the motivation I need to keep pushing on!

As we all know, NHS funding is extremely stretched and anything you can spare would be appreciated – if every one of my friends who have been following my training story, donated just £5, I would beat my target!!

Thank you xx

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About the charity

Remember Rufus

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RCN 1192076
Remember Rufus has been set up in memory of our beautiful firstborn son, Rufus Harry Jude Key, who was stillborn on 11th October 2020 due to a silent placenta abruption at 39 weeks gestation. Following Rufus' birth, we were able to spend 6 unforgettable days with our son thanks to having access to a Cuddle Cot. During this time we were able to do many of the 'firsts' we had dreamt of with our boy including bath time, his first walk, meeting his grandparents and story. The memories we created are etched in our minds and have helped us immeasurably in our grief process. Our aim is to make sure every parent who faces the devastating reality of losing a child has access to this fantastic equipment which allows families to take time making memories with their precious baby(ies) in a private setting within the hospital, hospice or at even at home. Those extra hours and days can mean wider family members are also able to say goodbye. Without a cuddle cot, a bereaved family will typically only have 10-12 hours with their little one before they are taken away. Many studies have shown that increasing the amount of time parents have with their child(ren) will assist them with processing the mental and emotional difficulties of losing a child. No amount of time will ever be enough, but allowing parents the flexibility and control of managing their final goodbyes in the way that feels best for them is something that all families deserve.

Donation summary

Total raised
£810.00
+ £148.75 Gift Aid
Online donations
£810.00
Offline donations
£0.00

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